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5 Myths Sex-Positive Feminism Can Perpetuate About Women Who Don’t Do Casual Sex
“#1: We just need to liberate ourselves from sex-shaming.” This author’s a sex-positive feminist – and she’s often questioned for not having casual sex. Make sure you’re not including these myths in your sex positivity.
Read MoreNot Sure How to Discuss Sexual Desires with Your Partner? We’ve Got You Covered
You can find plenty of resources on “how to please your partner” – but having real conversation with your partner is the best sex tip out there. Here are some practical ways to make communication happen.
Read More6 Ways Your ‘Concern’ About Your Friend’s Sex Life Is Really Sex-Shaming
“There’s nothing wrong with casual sex, but I’m worried that you’ll get hurt.” Have you ever had concerns like this? They can come from a good place, but here are some of the damaging myths behind them.
Read MoreWho We’re Leaving Out of Sex Positivity – And How to Make It More Inclusive
You’re probably familiar with the traditional vision of “sex positivity” – talking about all the ways that sex can be great. But do you know who’s being left out? This comic shows how we can make a change.
Read More6 Reasons To Drop The Myth That Women Who Have Lots of Sex Are ‘Insecure’
Have you fallen for this myth? Insecurity is a factor in some women’s sexual choices, but it’s not a universal motivator – and here’s why we really need to challenge this idea.
Read More5 Awesome Things About Being Mini-Orgasmic
Do you know about the different orgasmic patterns? If you can relate to this author and your orgasms aren’t like the ones in the movies, you’re not dysfunctional – here’s a celebration of how mini-orgasmic bodies work.
Read MoreHave a Vagina? Here Are 5 Reasons Sex Might Hurt
The majority of people with vaginas have painful sexual intercourse at some point in their lives. Cristen Conger shares some of the most common reasons, with ideas to help.
Read More5 Great Tips to Make Talking with Your Partner About Sex Easier
Do you have a hard time talking to your partner about your sexual desires and boundaries? You’re not alone – this article has five reasons these discussions can be difficult, with some strategies to make it easier.
Read MoreHow Do You Know If Someone Wants to Have Sex? 5 Essential Signs of Consent
Do you know all the ways someone can communicate wanting to have sex? Consent includes words and body language – and this Planned Parenthood video has an excellent breakdown of what that really means.
Read MoreThe Problem With How We’ve Defined Consent
Do society’s gender norms influence your idea of consent? Read this author’s breakdown and you’ll understand why our perspectives need to change – and how we can start to change them.
Read MoreWant Sex Tips That Actually Help? Try These 4 Activities to Connect to Your Body
Lots of sex advice includes new tricks, toys, and positions. But if you’re like this author, those kinds of tips aren’t helpful – because the first step is to connect with your body. These tips can help you get there.
Read More5 Ways Advice Columns Harm Us When They Make Sex the Answer to Romantic Problems
We all know that so-called women’s magazines can be harmful, especially in the ways that they talk about sex. But have you ever thought about the way that these columns push sex as a cure-all for relationship ills? These authors have – and what they have to share may surprise you.
Read MoreMy Experience with Sex After 50 Has Been Both a Struggle and a Gift
This is a fascinating account of how one woman’s body and desires changed with aging. Does her story give you a new perspective on sex after 50?
Read MoreYour 3-Step Guide to Practicing Non-Oppressive BDSM
Some people think it’s contradictory to be a feminist and practice BDSM. With these tips, you can think through even more than safe words and and consent – and get kinky without compromising your values.
Read MoreConsent’s So-Called ‘Gray Areas’ Aren’t Confusing At All with This Poet’s Analogies
“What if we’re just both really drunk? What if she sends mixed messages? What if I’m trying to do the right thing but I read those signals wrong?”
Read More7 Lies That Can Make You Think It’s Okay to Judge Women Who Like Sex
If you’re feeling okay about judging a “promiscuous” woman because of these myths, you need to know the truth behind them.
Read MoreSome People Have Sexless Relationships – And Here Are Some Things Not to Say to Them
Have you ever made one of these assumptions about people in sexless relationships? Because they can be really hurtful.
Read MoreYes! 4 Ways Feminism Can Make You Better In Bed
Lucky us! We’re really glad #4 made the list. Can you think of any more?
Read MoreIt’s Rude to Say Prude, and It Sucks When You Label Me Slut – Stop Policing My Sexuality!
Can we stop with the shame now so we can all have an ending as sweet as this one? Tell us how you’ve dealt with comments like these!
Read MoreWhat This Expert Wishes Everyone Knew About Polyamory (Even If It’s Not for You)
She’s got a great message about monogamy, too. Does this change or support anything you already knew or thought about polyamory?
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