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7 Ways Parents Can Be More Body Positive Toward Their Queer and Transgender Kids
Traditional gender norms can be harmful for any child, and these ideas can help you be more body positive, especially with trans and gender non-conforming kids.
Read More‘Mom, I’m Not a Girl:’ A Loving Mom Reflects on Raising Her Transgender Son
At first, like many parents, this mom didn’t know what to do when she learned her child was transgender. But we can all learn from the affirming journey she and her son have taken together.
Read MoreMy Partner Came Out as a Transgender Woman And We’re Happier Than Ever
“Would you still love me if…?” This is hard for some people to understand – so here’s an insider’s view that sheds a fascinating light on a relationship with a partner who transitions.
Read MoreHow Many Moments of Extraordinary Strength Can You Spot in This Ordinary Day in the Life of a Transgender Woman?
Can you do the simple exercise Hannah’s come up with? It really puts in perspective how you “just know” some things about who you are.
Read MoreWhy Rachel Dolezal’s Fake ‘Transracial’ Identity Is Nothing Like Being Transgender – Take It From a Black Trans Woman Who Knows
What do you think of the story of #RachelDolezal, the white woman exposed for pretending to be Black? Wondering about the difference between being “transracial” and transgender? Kat Blaque breaks down the truth – and she’s spot on about what so many people are getting wrong.
Read More6 Ways Transphobia Directly Contributes to High Rates of Suicide in Trans Communities
Do you know the factors that increase the risk of suicide in trans communities? This info shows that there’s nothing wrong with being trans, but there’s something horribly wrong with the way our culture treats trans people.
Read More10 Misconceptions Every Trans Ally Needs to Understand
You may think you’ve got the basics down – but these myths are common even among well-meaning allies. So make sure you know the truth.
Read MoreThese 10 ‘Acceptable’ Trans Narratives Are Actually Holding Us Back
Is there a “proper” way to be transgender? You know the answer is no, but is it possible that you’ve bought into some of the social stigmas pressuring trans people to stick to a script? Many parts of our lives, gender identities, and sexuality are left out of socially accepted trans stories. Here they are, out in the open, saying “hell no” to acceptability politics.
Read More6 Ways Femmephobia Is Harming LGBTQIA+ Communities
Have you noticed femmephobia in your life? Here’s what it is and how it shows up in LGBTQIA+ communities – and why we must put a stop to the devastating results for everyone involved.
Read More5 Questions Cis People Are Still Asking About Why Trans-Inclusive Language Matters, Answered
You’ve probably come across articles about the vocabulary to use for transgender issues. But do you know why it’s so important to use inclusive language? It’s not just about being “PC” – here’s why it really matters.
Read More4 Reasons We Need to Quit Describing Trans People As ‘Self-Hating’
You probably know the trope of the trans person who hates their body. If you’re defining trans experiences this way, here’s how you may be missing the point.
Read More11 Myths, Misconceptions, and Lies About Gender Non-conforming Children
When a moving video about a transgender child went viral, this author saw some common ideas in the unkind comments section. It’s time to put these myths to rest.
Read More16 Myths About Gender Confirmation Surgery
Misinformation is the enemy of progressive change and social improvement. And unfortunately, there is a LOT of misinformation about gender confirmation surgery. “They need therapy, not surgery!” “I don’t want to pay for that.” “It’s not like it’s life or death.” These ideas aren’t helping anyone. In fact, they’re harmful to many. So let’s clear up a few misconceptions.
Read MoreFifty Shades of White: On Being a Trans Latina
I never really used to give much thought to the idea that society needs positive cultural images of minorities until I came to embrace my Hispanic heritage and come out of the closet. When I finally did, it raised the question: Where the hell are the transgender Latinas? Is it true that there really aren’t very many Latina/Hispanic trans women in this country?
Read MoreThe TSA’s Discriminatory Policies Against Trans People Are Even Worse Than You Think
Humiliation, harassment, abuse – do you know about the many dangers trans people face when flying? Here’s a break-down of the terrible impact, and the necessary changes that are long overdue.
Read More6 Affirmations for Trans Folks Who Don’t Feel ‘Trans Enough’
What do you have to do to be “trans enough?” Spoiler alert: Your gender isn’t up for debate. These affirmations will remind you of just that.
Read MoreHow the Mainstream LGBTQIA+ Movement Is Leaving Behind and Even Hurting Our Community’s Most Vulnerable
The growing rift between mainstream and marginalized LGBTQIA+ people who are often trans, of color, poor, and homeless exposes a dangerous truth about the movement. Here’s why we need to do better.
Read MoreThe Comedy You Love Uses Trans Women As Punchlines And We Need To Talk About It
Do you recognize these tired tropes about trans women from popular shows and movies? These “jokes” are so common that many of us still laugh along – but Kat Blaque’s got a better idea.
Read More8 Tips on Respectfully Talking Pleasure, Sex, and Bodies With Your Trans Lover
It’s super important to have conversations about sexual boundaries, consent, and desires with your lovers. These conversations keep us safer, but there aren’t many examples for how to respectfully and non-fetishistically have them when your lover is trans. This article provides insight on how to compassionately negotiate sexual dialogue with your trans partner.
Read More6 Questions Not to Ask a Pregnant Trans Person
When this author became pregnant, he got all kinds of insensitive questions – and many people didn’t realize they were being hurtful. Here’s what you should avoid asking a pregnant trans person.
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