EVERYDAY FEMINISM

Why I Stand Up to Politically-Incorrect Jokes

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I’ve had this experience a million times. It’s one of the complicated realities that come along with being a progressive-minded person. The jokes just aren’t as funny anymore. When we can see the humanity behind the people who these jokes target, and when we understand the implications of the privileged laughing at the marginalized, we lose our ability to laugh at their expense.

EF 05 – Supporting Survivors of Sexual Violence, with Sarah Ogden

EF 05 - How To Help A Friend Who Has Been Sexually Assaulted, with Sarah Ogden

When someone tells you that they were sexually violated, you may not know what would be the best way to support them. We may end up reacting in disempowering or unhelpful ways unintentionally. In this podcast episode, Sandra Kim, Melissa Fabello, and Sarah Ogden will talk about how the different ways they can show their support to friends and and loved ones who are on a healing journey.

The Trouble With Rape Jokes And 3 Tips for Surviving Them

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Rape jokes are just not funny. They can be traumatizing and anyone around you may be a survivor without you knowing it. To see why these jokes continue, we need to understand how sexual violence is made insignificant and normalized, the ways we contribute to rape culture, and how to address people who make them. And most importantly, we need to take care of ourselves when it happens.

Child Sexual Abuse: What It Is And What To Do About It

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No one wants to think about the sexual abuse of children, particularly involving their own kids. But it’s a devastating reality that too many children face, and we help no one when we avoid it. We must be educated in order to be prepared to help the survivors – your kids, your nieces and nephews, your friends’ kids. So here’s a breakdown of what is it and what to do if a child is being abused.

How To Exercise Out Of Self-Love And Not Due To Fat-Shaming

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For as feminist as I am, and for as committed to appreciating every body at every size, and as interested as I am to redefining my own understanding of health, I too fall into the trap of shaming my body for having flesh and weight. And my guess is that I’m not alone. So here are some ways to get into a loving frame of mind toward your body and exercising

3 Tools To Handle Conflict and Stress In A Healthy Way

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There isn’t a person on this planet who can say that they have never reacted on pure emotion when it may have been more appropriate to first take a deep breath and to calm down before reacting. But that takes a certain skill set that most of us haven’t yet mastered. Here are a few helpful acronyms to remember and to practice as we find the best ways to handle our emotions.

Breaking News: Menstruation Is Awesome!

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Menstruation. That dirty little secret that half the population is expected to keep. That shameful reality that we take extreme measures to avoid. It’s completely reasonable that one might not enjoy having their period, but there’s no reason periods need to be shamed. Let’s redefine the cultural narrative around menstruation and celebrate it as natural, beautiful, and powerful!

5 Ways to Build Empathy In Our Communities

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As social creatures, we thrive in community and rely on each other for our very survival and use empathy to connect and build that community. But we train empathy out of our bodies by shielding our eyes to what we do not want to see – ignoring the raw humanity and need that is right in front of us, that would make us ache if we would only let it. This has an impact on us as individuals and as a community.

Five Ways Rape Culture Exists Unnoticed And Goes Unchecked In Our Everyday Life

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While there are many glaring examples of rape culture, there’s also a covert nature to rape culture that often goes unnoticed. We must also look beyond the overt ways in which rape apologia exists and recognize exactly how it sneaks into our everyday life. So let’s look at some pervasive and normalized parts of society that contribute to it and what you can do about it in your life.

How To Help A Friend Who Has Been Sexually Assaulted

EF 05 - How To Help A Friend Who Has Been Sexually Assaulted, with Sarah Ogden

Imagine your friend just told you they had been sexually assaulted. You may not know what to do, what to say, or how to respond. But you know the way you respond can have a huge impact on your friend and you want to be supportive of them during their healing process. So here are some tips to support them with sensitivity and grace. (Trigger Warning)