EVERYDAY FEMINISM

How to Tell If Your Child Is Bullying Others (And What to Do About It)

Source: Huffington Post

Most parents don’t want to believe that their child is capable of doing anything wrong — especially bullying others. But the truth is, this denial is only making the problem worse. Parents and guardians are the ones who have to face the reality of bullying, and take charge against it. Here are some helpful tips on how to begin this difficult process.

13 Lies We Have to Stop Telling About Bisexuals

Source: Milk Boys

Despite all of the gains the LGBTQIA+ community has made, bisexual people are still looked upon with confusion — or outright scorn — by gay, lesbian, and straight people alike. Here we are in the supposedly enlightened year of 2014 – and yet, biphobia persists. Here are a few tiresome lies society really needs to stop telling about bisexual people.

Questions No 4-Year-Old Should Have to Ask: “But Uncle, what happens if the cop is really mean?”

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Young, unarmed Black men are being shot and killed at an alarming rate, particularly by the police. What are these shootings teaching our young Black boys? Check out this powerful spoken word poem from Javon Johnson about the day he realized his 4 year old nephew was already preparing for the battle that would be his life as a Black man in a racist, anti-Black world.

5 Reasons Why We Need to Stop Thinking of Skinny-Shaming as ‘Reverse Discrimination’

Source: Prairie Path

There are the people who say that “skinny-shaming is the same as fat-shaming.” And because on the surface, that comparison seems to hold water, I think we need to examine it a little more closely to see why – when using an intersectional, anti-oppression lens – it’s actually a false equivalence. Because all bodies are shamed. Some just experience more oppression.

If Buying Condoms Was Like Buying the Pill

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Anyone who’s ever used oral contraception knows that getting it is no easy task. But condoms? Condoms are available in every gas station, grocery store, and drug store. And that difference is because our patriarchal society doesn’t want women to be able to easily have sex without the fear of getting pregnant. So check out this video parody showing how ridiculously difficult we make buying the pill.

9 Ways Privileged People Can Reduce the Negative Impact of Gentrification

Source: Panoramio

What many of us see is a subtle, nuanced version of gentrification, in which not every change is bad and there aren’t any obvious heroes or villains. But just because something doesn’t look like a problem doesn’t mean it’s not a problem. So we can choose to enjoy the colorful, “revitalized” façade of our shiny new neighborhoods – or we can peek behind the curtain.

If Lesbians Said What Straight People Say

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There are a lot of great things about being a lesbian–but the invasive comments from straight people isn’t one of them. Hypersexualization, dismissiveness, and self-indulgence are just a few of the things lesbians encounter from straight people. Check out this hilarious parody video to see what it would sound like if the roles were reversed!

Fatphobia: 5 Facts and a Guide for the Disbeliever

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Fatphobia is real, and fat acceptance activism is seriously needed. In a culture where systematic oppression against fat bodies exists, fat is absolutely a feminist issue. But in case you’re still dubious, here are five facts about our fatphobic society to serve as a guide for the disbelievers.

Asexuality, Explained in One Simple Comic

5 Myths About Asexuality

There seems to be quite a lot of confusion about asexuality. Common beliefs are that it’s the same thing as celibacy, that all asexual people have been abused, and that asexuals don’t experience oppression — none of which are true. So let’s clear the air about the “A” in LGBTQIA+. Check out this comic to learn the truth about some common myths about asexuality.