“#1: We just need to liberate ourselves from sex-shaming.” This author’s a sex-positive feminist – and she’s often questioned for not having casual sex. Make sure you’re not including these myths in your sex positivity.
“You’re not allowed to say no.” You’d never want your child to feel like this author did – but her parents didn’t mean to make her feel this way either. These are important lessons on our cultural missteps in teaching consent.
You can find plenty of resources on “how to please your partner” – but having real conversation with your partner is the best sex tip out there. Here are some practical ways to make communication happen.
“There’s nothing wrong with casual sex, but I’m worried that you’ll get hurt.” Have you ever had concerns like this? They can come from a good place, but here are some of the damaging myths behind them.
You’re probably familiar with the traditional vision of “sex positivity” – talking about all the ways that sex can be great. But do you know who’s being left out? This comic shows how we can make a change.