Posts by Hari Ziyad
3 Reasons Dating, Attraction, and Desire Are Always Political
Many of us learn that attraction is innate – but do you know how desirability politics can create some oppressive beauty standards? Here’s why we have to recognize this influence in our lives.
Read More10 Personal Rights That I, As a Black, Non-Binary, Queer Person, Refuse to Compromise On
As a black, non-binary person, this author spends a lot of time reasserting their right to exist as they are. Here are some rights that are not up for debate – and that every ally and black, non-binary person should know.
Read More4 Reasons It’s Oppressive to Discuss Gender and Sexuality Without Naming Race
Don’t make the mistake of thinking that “solidarity” for marginalized genders and sexualities means centering whiteness. Here’s how this is happening, and why it needs to stop.
Read More3 Reasons We Cannot Cater to White Friends Who Say ‘I’m Not Racist’
How do you respond when your white friends claim they aren’t racist? These insights can help you deal with defensiveness from white friends who want you to reassure them that they aren’t “bad” people.
Read More3 Differences Between the Terms ‘Gay’ and ‘Queer’ — and Why It Matters
“Gay” and “queer” are sometimes used interchangeably – but are they really the same? This author’s identifying a few of the differences that might just change your perspective on these terms.
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