Posts by Patricia Valoy
Dealing with Female Rivalry in the Workplace
I have firsthand experience with feeling alienated and stereotyped. I have been intimidated in meetings and presentations. And I have also been the intimidator.The belief that there is only space for one woman at the top transcends industries. We must remember that the boardroom is not a throne. There is space around every boardroom table for us – many of us. We just have to barge in as a team.
Read MoreIn Pursuit of Sexual Pleasure Equality
Girls are often raised more conservatively and are socially conditioned to set limitations on sexual activity. And if the movie industry is an extension of our world, you can expect it to be just as sexist and patriarchal. But you don’t have to accept it. When we write our stories and demand to see them portrayed, we redefine what is normal. Redefining normal is easier than you think.
Read MoreWhy Feminism Can Be Scary for Some Women
One of the most frustrating parts of feminist activism is hearing people whose values are clearly in line with feminism start a sentence with, “I’m not a feminist, but…” Why are some people so hesitant to call themselves feminists? What about that label is so off-putting? Turns out, there are a few reasons. Spoiler alert: they have a lot to do with sexism.
Read MoreOn Feminism and Faith
If feminism becomes synonymous with anti-religion, we risk alienating the women we seek to uplift and support. Because while modern religions are all very male-centric, they simply mimic the world that we live in. That is, religion isn’t the problem – the patriarchy with them is. Let us show support and solidarity with feminists of faith, especially as they fight from within for greater equality.
Read MoreWhy We Need More Women in the Construction Industry
Construction jobs are a desirable career choice for many. However, while sex discrimination is illegal, many construction sites have anti-women attitudes, making construction jobs less desirable and more torturous for women. I know because it happened to me. And we need to increase the number of women in the construction industry so that this doesn’t happen.
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