Posts by xoài phạm
I’m Gender Non-Conforming – And I Need People to Stop Pressuring Me to ‘Pass’
The idea of “passing” (or “looking cis”) often comes up as a goal for trans people. But not everyone wants to pass – and here’s why this author and other gender non-conforming people need us to ditch the idea.
Read More3 Reasons It’s Irrational to Demand ‘Rationalism’ in Social Justice Activism
Mention an idea like abolishing prisons, and some people say you’re not being “rational” or “realistic.” But have you considered these points about how the urge to be rational is holding us back?
Read MoreEnding Anti-Blackness Needs to Be a Top Priority for Asian Americans – Here’s Why
This author’s working on unlearning anti-Blackness, and they’ve got some important insights to share about why this is so important for Asian Americans. Have you noticed these ways anti-Blackness goes unchecked?
Read More3 Ways Gender and Sexuality Are More Fluid Than We Think
This author’s identity is more fluid than they once thought. These lessons they’ve learned through the process of discovering that might just change your perspective on gender and sexuality, too.
Read More3 Reasons Queer Asians Can’t Discard Their Families – And Why They Don’t Have to
Tired of the same old movie about a gay white kid overcoming their family’s disapproval? If you’re queer and Asian, you’ll appreciate this author’s take on how those narratives don’t fit your needs.
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