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Seeing Other Women As Allies, Rather Than Enemies: A How-To
When this woman looked at other women’s accomplishments, she felt worse about herself and criticizing them was her defense mechanism. Here’s why, and how, we can support rather than lament the success of other women.
Read MoreA Tale of Two Feminists: On Being an Activist in College
When Amy arrived at college, she hardly identified as a feminist. Conversely, when Erin arrived at college, she was already a full-fledged feminist activist. Now Amy and Erin are both in college – one conservative and one liberal – and they see the need for some advice on how to be a collegiate feminist activist, regardless of your environment. This article is it.
Read More3 Tips to Help Deal with Fat Shame from a Healthcare Professional
“Lose 20 pounds, and you’ll feel better.” “If you started exercising, this wouldn’t be a problem.” If you aren’t thin, chances are you’ve gone to the doctor’s office about a lingering cold, or a hurt elbow and had to listen to comments like these from your doctor. These situations can be awkward, and triggering. So can we handle them in the moment?
Read MoreHow My Past As A Black Woman Informs Me As A Black Male Feminist
I am not new to masculinity, but I am new to being a black man. I am new to the experience of male privilege, as well as the disprivilege of race that marks my black male body as suspect. It is the delicate balance between power and criminal that has allowed me to see misogyny in an entirely different light. But because black feminism allows me to love myself, I have learned to love black men.
Read MoreAdmitting My Adopted Child Is Struggling with Feeling Loved
Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt make it look easy. But sometimes the road to loving your adopted daughter is long, twisted, and scary. My daughter didn’t clutch to me. She never rested her head on my shoulder or relaxed into a warm embrace. She didn’t respond if I sang to her. Worried, I mentioned her odd behavior to her pediatrician. That was the first time I’d heard of Reactive Attachment Disorder.
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