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9 of the Biggest Lies Christianity Tells Us About Sex and Marriage
Wow, this is really bad advice. Does the Christian church’s monopoly on Western conversations on sex and marriage mean you’ve been subject to it?
Read More8 Refreshing Approaches to Positive Sex for People of All Sizes
“Let’s talk about (fat) sex!” We don’t talk about it nearly enough, but it’s an important part of both sex positivity and body positivity. Just think of all the ways sexuality is stripped from people who are considered fat. Now read this introduction to “Sex at Every Size,” a new set of practices to help us move beyond society’s limits and feel sexy at any size.
Read MoreSex After Sexual Assault: A Guide for When It’s Tough
Sex after sexual assault can be tough. So here’s a helpful guide to getting all the self-care and pleasure you deserve after surviving sexual assault.
Read More8 Tips on Respectfully Talking Pleasure, Sex, and Bodies With Your Trans Lover
It’s super important to have conversations about sexual boundaries, consent, and desires with your lovers. These conversations keep us safer, but there aren’t many examples for how to respectfully and non-fetishistically have them when your lover is trans. This article provides insight on how to compassionately negotiate sexual dialogue with your trans partner.
Read More8 Ways to Make Sex an Awkwardness-Free Conversation Topic with Your Kids
I have three kids — 15, 18, and 20 — and none of them has gotten pregnant, impregnated anyone, or gotten an STD (at least, as far as I know). And they talk to me about lots of things, including sex. Sometimes too much. If you want to achieve the same kind of open dialogue I have with my spawn, here are my eight tips for how to talk to your kids about sex.
Read More17 Lies We Need to Stop Teaching Boys About Sex
Men and boys are a big part of the equation in discussions about sex positivity, so let’s debunk these 17 myths boys often learn about sex.
Read More3 Reasons Why Sex-Positivity without Critical Analysis Is Harmful
I like what sex-positivity sets out to do, but the problem for me is the way that a lot of people practice sex-positivity in the mainstream movement – namely, without a critical analysis component. And I want to talk about that. So here are three points to consider when thinking through this stuff.
Read MoreHealthy Sex Talk: Teaching Kids Consent, Ages 1-21
We believe parents can start educating children about consent and empowerment as early as 1 year old and continuing into the college years. It is our sincere hope that this education can help us raise empowered young adults who have empathy for others and a clear understanding of healthy consent. There are three sections, based upon children’s ages, preschool, grade school, and teens and young adults.
Read MoreWhy Saying “Men Are Slaves To Their Sex Drive” Is Insulting To Men
What does it mean to generalize men’s sex drive as no stronger than a dog who humps everything? Men have will, agency – and here’s why they should be held to a higher standard.
Read MoreLet’s Talk About Sex Part I: Yes, It Starts at Birth
Bringing home a new baby is a mixture of unparalleled joy and equally intense stress. The last thing on your mind is probably the sexuality of your tiny infant. We don’t want to think of our innocent children as sexual beings but they are, especially in relationship to how they perceive their own body, which parents influence. And it all starts well before the first “birds and bees” discussion.
Read MoreI Got a STD the First Time I Had Sex
It was April Fool’s Day when my boyfriend told me he (now we) had a STD. I laughed for thirty seconds until I realized he wasn’t joking.
Read More4 Ways To Support Your Friend Who’s Being Sex-Shamed
Thankfully we’ve been hearing more and more about how slut-shaming is wrong. But what do we do when it happens to someone we know?
Read MoreNo Ghost Friends: 9 Feminist Tips for Casual Dating and Phantom-Free Hook-Ups
Casual dating can be scary enough without the possibility of “ghosting.” Here’s how to make sure “casual” isn’t code for “unaccountable” – tips for communication and respect.
Read More4 Bogus Stereotypes You Might Believe About Openly Sexual Women
You might not realize how common myths about openly sexual women go hand-in-hand with sexist and heteronormative assumptions. Do you believe any of these?
Read MoreWhen Consent Feels Complicated, Remember These Teenagers’ Wise Words
We often discuss consent as simply “yes” or “no” – but do you know of situations when it feels more complicated? Degrassi visits a high school for some smart answers on tough questions.
Read More5 Fantastic Ways to Engage in Feminist Hookup Culture
Hookup culture can be really sexist – so is it possible to enjoy casual sex without the misogyny? Yes! Check out these tips for a more empowering time.
Read More9 Questions I Ask Myself Before Having Sex That Might Help You, Too
What if you and a partner have different ideas about sex? What if you want to stop? Here are some things to consider to make sure you’re comfortable and safe having sex.
Read MoreIt’s Hard Introducing New Sexual Desires into Relationships – Here Are 6 Ways to Start
“1. Get Comfortable with Your Desires.” If you’re not sure how to start a conversation with your partner about what you want, these steps should help.
Read More4 Reasons Women Might Not Want Casual Sex That Have Nothing to Do With ‘Biology’
Do you believe it’s hard for a woman to enjoy sex without an emotional bond? That explanation is missing something, so here’s more info on women and casual sex – beyond so-called “biological differences.”
Read More7 Things Cis Men Over 50 Need to Remember When Dating Women
People over 50 are dating more and more every year – and some are still holding on to some oppressive ideas about what’s acceptable. Here are some critical dating tips to keep in mind.
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