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How Do I Know If I’ve Been Raped?
Have you come across any confusing ideas about what ‘counts’ as rape? This guide clears up so many common questions – here’s what everyone needs to know about what rape means.
Read MoreThis Comic Nails What It’s Like to Live With Mental Illness – And It’s Not Like Most People Think
If you’ve ever called an organized friend “OCD” or a pushy boss a “psycho,” you need to check out this brutally honest comic that can help a lot of struggling people.
Read MoreWhat On Earth Makes Us Want to Wear High Heels? Well, Here’s Your Answer
Why do so many (including this author) love heels, in spite of their problems? These answers are fascinating. Do you have any to add?
Read MoreKnow Someone with Food Allergies? Here Are 6 Things to Avoid Saying to Them
It might not seem like a big deal to say these things – but you should really find out what it’s like for a person with food allergies.
Read MoreViolence Through Words Is Still Violence – And This Stirring Response to Emotional Abuse Will Show You Why
Ever had someone (even a survivor) refuse to call violence that’s not physical “abuse?” This woman’s story leaves no doubt that it is.
Read MoreWhat If We Treated All Consent Like Society Treats Sexual Consent?
Life would be awful if people actually did these things – so why do people do it when it comes to rape?
Read MoreProof That Racism Is a Booming Business with Ridiculously Successful Advertising – And How You Can Help Destroy It
What if we told you racism’s been advertised to you today? Check this out and you may be surprised.
Read MoreA Smile Isn’t an Invitation for Harassment – So Could You Stop, Please?
Women smile for a lot of reasons. So why is it that harassers always want to make it about them?
Read MoreWhat Everyone Needs to Know About #BlackLivesMatter, MLK, and Why Our Protests Are No Overreaction
Find out why people are saying these are the words that finally helped them understand anti-Black racism in the U.S.
Read MoreThis Is Why It Hurts When You Say These Things to People with Chronic Pain (And Some Ideas on How to Support Instead)
These innocent assumptions can do a lot of damage. Are any of them assumptions you’ve made?
Read MoreWhat Would Happen If We Treated Male Politicians Like We Treat Female Politicians?
We laughed, and then we wondered: What does this say about how we understand leadership?
Read MoreHow Society Polices Women’s Clothing (No Matter What We Wear)
Women’s clothing choices are constantly under attack; this comic shows how. Can you relate?
Read MoreYour Cinematic Crush Is a Stalker (Um, and That’s a Problem)
Ahhh, movie magic romance. So daring, so swoon-worthy, so… stalkerish. The media has an interesting way of presenting love to the masses. Namely, it takes blatantly abusive behavior and manipulates the audience into thinking it’s romantic. And that can be really dangerous. Check out this comic to see examples of how those popular cinematic moments should have gone.
Read MoreWhy We Can’t Just ‘Chill Out’ About Racism
You’re not imagining it. When people suggest that racism is over, they’re ignoring a lot of undeniable truths. Here’s a comic that brings reality back into the conversation about race.
Read MoreThese Double Standards Have Got to Go
Ever feel like people treat you the way they wouldn’t want to be treated? Here a chance to recognize that. Some of our cultural norms reveal that many people operate by some pretty messed up double standards. This comic puts those standards side-by-side so we can understand exactly what’s wrong here and do something to make sure we all get the respect we deserve.
Read More5 Reasons White People Don’t Have to Hate People of Color to Be Racist
We all know the ways well-meaning white people aren’t intentionally racist, and we get it – it’s tough to feel like part of the problem. But everyone should know these ways that even the most “well-intended” white person can participate in and benefit from racism. Learn what to do after acknowledging your privilege (hint: don’t hate yourself, just be accountable).
Read MoreHow the Justice System Mistreats Black People
Justice is supposed to be colorblind, especially in America. But is this really true? Simply put: no. Black people in the United States face overwhelming racism within the criminal justice system. This infographic from ArrestRecords.com provides an overview of how black people are disproportionately profiled, arrested, and convicted within the United States.
Read MoreI Didn’t Know How to Deal with My Ex-Boyfriend’s Eating Disorder
It was the summer of 2006. I met Ben at the movie theater where we both worked. He seemed somewhat uncomfortable in his skin, but, hell, so was I. Eventually, I became acutely more aware of Ben’s extreme insecurity and unhealthy habits. At the time, I naively thought my words and support alone could help him. But I didn’t know then what I know now.
Read MoreNavigating Online Dating
Online dating has never been more popular, perhaps because it enables you to choose who you want to chat to. So throw the traditional dating rulebook out of the window and make the first move on the candidates on your hot list. If you fancy a date with someone, ask them! Read on for some tips for making the best out of your online dating adventures.
Read More10 Things I Wished I’d Known When I Started My Transition
Exactly two years ago, I sat apprehensively in the reception area of the public health clinic, waiting for my name to be called. I remember looking around the room at the other trans girls sitting nearby. I couldn’t wait to be just like them. Two years and 4,860 pills later, I now realize how little I actually understood back then. Today, I’d like to share ten lessons that I wish I had known.
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