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On Being Non-White, But Passing Terribly Well
This author passes for white, easily. In this article she reveals how, regardless of how she was raised or how she sees herself, this has made an impact on her life.
Read More5 Excuses for Street Harassment We Need To Stop Making…Now
When people normalize and defend public sexual harassment, they silence those who would speak out. But as more activists around the world stand up and say they’ve had enough, these misconceptions are getting kicked to the curb – where they belong.
Read MoreWhy Everyday Feminism Is For Everyone
Feminism fights for everyone’s freedom to pursue happiness. Feminism is for everyone, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, race, or class.
Read More3 Ways My Learning Disability Affects My Life
Do you know anyone with a learning disability? These are invisible disabilities – so you might not understand the everyday impact. This explanation can help you get it.
Read More5 Assumptions Behind the ‘Fear of Missing Out’ That Are Actually Really Ableist
Do you know about FOMO? It’s the “fear of missing out” on something. It may seem simple – but find out why it’s harmful to everyone, especially disabled people, and why “friends don’t let friends suffer from FOMO!”
Read MoreIf You Have Friends and Family Dealing with Substance Abuse and Addiction, Here Are 5 Ways to Support Them
This author just celebrated one year of sobriety – and he’s got some insights on supporting your loved ones that you might not have considered.
Read MoreWe Must Stop Making These Mistakes About Health & Body Positivity
It is absolutely OK to be whatever size you are, including hella fat. It is absolutely fine to not be “healthy” or “strong” by whatever definition.
Read MoreWhen It’s A Popularity Contest: Here’s How To Redistribute Social Capital In Activist Spaces
The ideas around social capital and popularity often run alongside privilege and desirability politics. Previously, I wasn’t aware of these terms. But after a few, let’s say, “discussions” with other organizers, I’m was made aware of the ways social capital can create hierarchies in organizing spaces. These conversations led to a few things: Some folks…
Read More4 Reasons Why I Refuse to Say That Mental Illness ‘Doesn’t Define Me’
Is it better to separate your mental illness from your identity? Not for everyone – and this may give you a whole new perspective on this question.
Read MoreA Letter to Young Feminists Who Date Trump Supporters
This pattern of “agreeing to disagree” with a Trump supporter isn’t just “controversial” – it’s dangerous. This breakdown reveals what you might be missing.
Read More4 Myths About Self-Harm We Urgently Need to Unlearn
Myth #2: “Self-harm is done for attention.” This author learned about self-harm at a young age, and in a terrible way. Let’s do better by unlearning these myths.
Read More5 Oppressive Tactics We Need to Stop Using in Our Anti-Oppression Work
Calling oppressive people “old,” “crazy,” or “ugly?” We get your frustration, but here’s why we’ve got to do better than making oppressive comments ourselves.
Read MoreWhy Disability Activism Needs to Be More Inclusive of People of Color
You may think disability activism is inherently inclusive – but this author learned in some painful ways that it often excludes disabled people of color. Here’s what needs to change.
Read MoreHere’s Why You Shouldn’t ‘Debate’ with People Online
Let’s get real about “online debates” – what are they really good for? This comic has some much better ideas.
Read More5 Dangerous Mistakes I Made When I Started Practicing Polyamory
These are super common – even among people who “get” polyamory in theory. If you’re new to polyamory, this can help you avoid some hurtful mistakes.
Read More5 Reasons Everyone Can Help End Intimate Partner Violence By Learning About Abuse
If you don’t think intimate partner violence has anything to do with your life, think again. Here’s why everyone – including you – needs to know about abuse.
Read More4 Things We Should Stop Saying to Suicidal People (And What to Try Instead)
“What about the people you’ll leave behind?” It’s hard to know what to say if a friend tells you they’re suicidal. This guide will help.
Read More4 Ways Latinxs Perpetuate Classism in Our Communities
Have you ever met someone who treated Latinx culture like this author’s classmate did? Here are some of the ways Latinxs with class (and often education) privilege can cause harm through classism.
Read More3 Exciting Ways Witchcraft and Feminism Intersect
Witchcraft means a lot of different things to a lot of different people. This author can’t separate their craft from their feminism – find out why they wouldn’t have it any other way.
Read MoreDear Able Friends: I Am Not Your Inspiration Porn
Have you ever fallen for the objectifying message behind “inspiration porn?” This author wants you to know why you lose her trust and make her life harder when you expect people with disabilities to inspire you with their achievements.
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