We found that course members were far less inclined to share their struggles with others than in any other course. After having talked with some folks, they expressed hesitation around what felt like "airing out their dirty laundry." At the same time, they wanted to hear other couples share their struggles since it helped them feel not alone. However, this obviously doesn't work when people only want to listen and not share.
One idea is to have a group call to practice skills using scenarios. However if group support is not really desired, we can just focus on getting one-on-one support via coaching from Sandra. Let me know your thoughts!