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Here’s Why You Need To Practice Radical Vulnerability Online
I have put myself out there in ways that feel terrifying because it’s a revolutionary act as a multiply marginalized person to even exist in such a visible way.
Read MoreRedefining Butch-Femme Relationships
We are yin and yang — seemingly oppositional forces that are actually complementary and interconnected.
Read MoreWhy I Decided To Change My Name in the Trump Era
I’ve always been Hernández on the inside. But identity can be funny: sometimes, what’s inside doesn’t matter. When I was only 18 months old, my parents — the Hernández family — requested permission to legally change our surname. According to family lore, the judge bounced me on his lap as my father explained the discrimination…
Read MoreWhen It’s A Popularity Contest: Here’s How To Redistribute Social Capital In Activist Spaces
The ideas around social capital and popularity often run alongside privilege and desirability politics. Previously, I wasn’t aware of these terms. But after a few, let’s say, “discussions” with other organizers, I’m was made aware of the ways social capital can create hierarchies in organizing spaces. These conversations led to a few things: Some folks…
Read More7 Things I Love About Being Bi
For bisexual people, representations of our identity in the pop culture world seem to fall into one of two categories. The first is absolute erasure: We encounter TV shows, movies, news reports, songs, trends, books, and essays that refuse to acknowledge the existence or validity of bisexuality in any way. On the other hand, the recent…
Read More4 Myths Society Wants Us to Believe About Monogamy – And Why They’re Harmful
Most people would consider themselves pretty lucky to have found a partner that they connect with on a deep level. So I consider myself especially lucky that I’ve got two partners like that – two totally fulfilling, wonderful, and healthy relationships that bring a lot of love and warmth into my life. There’s an alternative…
Read More5 Excuses I’ve Made for My Perpetrators – And What They Reveal About Rape Culture
“Men can’t help it.” Have you made any of these excuses for people who violated your consent? These aren’t unusual, and that says a lot about rape culture.
Read MoreStudents Discuss the Reality of Online Bullying in the Age of Social Media
“It still follows me every day.” Has social media changed the nature of bullying? Young people share their answers in this Degrassi Group Chat.
Read More20+ Struggles Mentally Ill People Face in Colleges and Universities
Dealing with the symptoms of mental illness can be hard enough – and these examples of ableism on campus make college even tougher for students.
Read MoreThe Worst Thing About Being Catcalled Is My Guilt
Have you ever blamed yourself for being catcalled? A stunning perspective on carrying shame from street harassment.
Read More4 Reasons I Feel Guilty For Not Wanting Children
You shouldn’t have to feel guilty for not wanting to have children – but here are some of the reasons you’re not alone if you feel just that.
Read More5 Important Notes Every High School Activist Needs
High schoolers are doing some impressive activism these days – but it can be challenging to balance school with activism. These tips can help.
Read More3 Reasons I Hate the Question ‘What Do You Do for a Living?’
“What do you do?” This author saw a big difference in how this question comes up in the US and in Cuba. Find out why it seems like an absurd question now.
Read More4 Reasons I Don’t Consider Orgasm the Goal of Sex
Aiming for orgasm can be empowering, right? Not for everyone. So here’s how having a less climax-focused sex life has helped this author.
Read More8 Ways to Reconnect with Your Sexuality After Pregnancy
As a new parent, you might need some support adjusting to changes in your sex life. Try these strategies to navigate these changes in a healthy way.
Read MoreThis Funny Advice Will Show You When It’s Okay to Speak Up
Ever wanted someone to leave you alone, but didn’t want to be rude? Anna Akana’s got some super relatable and encouraging advice for situations like this.
Read More6 Steps You Can Take If You Start Slipping into Old Unhealthy Patterns
“Life has a funny way of interfering with our goals to live healthy, balanced lives.” Slipping into old behavior patterns? Try these strategies to get back on track.
Read MoreMy Tinder Date Assaulted Me – And I Blamed Myself
There’s a narrative around hookup culture that lends to victim-blaming – and it can even lead victims to blame themselves. Here’s what needs to change.
Read More5 Common Behaviors That Perpetuate Toxic Capitalism
Do you tie your self-worth to work or money? You’re not the only one – and these habits don’t come out of nowhere. Here’s how toxic capitalist values are hurting us.
Read More4 Strategies for Dealing with Imposter Syndrome
Ever experienced imposter syndrome – like thinking you don’t deserve your success? You’re no fraud, and you’re not alone. These tips can help.
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