To End Rape Culture, We Must Address These 3 Things

Source: Our Femifesto

As with all other systems of oppression, rape culture is a beast with tentacles and spores across countless other facets of inequality. The following 3 things may not appear to be major components of rape culture at first glance, but undoubtedly fuel and are fueled by it. Dismantling and addressing these things must be part of our movement to end rape culture.

Pleasure’s Place in Reproductive Rights and Our Bedrooms

Source: FORCE: Upsetting Rape Culture pillow via @SaraAlcid

We advocate for increased access to abortion care and tackle abortion stigma. We dream up contraceptive innovations. We craft extensive policy recommendations for reproductive healthcare. But the underlying truth in all of this — that people have sex for pleasure — is something we don’t talk about. For most people, candid conversations about pleasure are few and far between.

The Latest War on Women: Online Harassment

Source: Radio Australia

The Internet is very much a public space – with all of the same sexism, racism, homophobia, and transphobia of our streets, but often, much worse. Women are the targets of a lot of this ugliness. Not unlike street harassment in the way we feel its hovering, ominous presence and the way it can control our actions — or at least try to — online harassment is an issue to be taken seriously.

Law & Order: SVU vs. Reality: Offensively Different

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The depiction of rape in the media is not an inherently bad thing. But it is a bad thing when rape is part of a story line just for entertainment, for added suspense and sparkle. When television shows like Law & Order: SVU use and capitalize on rape as a means to allure viewers, the “featured” rape story becomes reduced to a mere gimmick, which is troubling and offensive.

The Hardest Part of Grieving: Actually Allowing Yourself to Do It

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Oftentimes our reaction to the death of a loved one is to scramble to regain normalcy. But stunting the grieving process will only compound the wall of bricks that you probably already feel like you’re carrying around on your shoulders. So here are a few nuggets of insight from someone who has realized how important it is to feel comfortable with the discomfort of grief.

A Vision For Marriage and Much More Than Marriage: Unfolding the Layers of Liberation

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Increasing marriage equality is a great step in the right direction. But it’s more important than ever to broaden the scope of what we envision for queer liberation. By unfolding the many layers of what liberation and equality could look like for the LGBTQ+ community, we’ll be able to see a nuanced picture of marriage equality that is couched in the larger movement for social justice.

10 Things We Need to Make Sure American Women Can Do by 2040

Source: Laced with Joy

Women’s rights in the United States have come a long way. But as we reflect on the remarkable progress the feminist movement has made in creating a more just and equal society, I challenge us to also look ahead to our next few decades of work. By 2040, let’s make sure young feminists can marvel at the following ten things that women of our generation were once not able to do.

EF 11 – Dating as a Feminist, with Sara Alcid


Navigating the dating world as a feminist can be frustrating and challenging, regardless of your gender identity and sexual orientation. The dating pool can feel awfully slim when you’re looking for a partner that shares your feminist values and ideals. In this episode, we will explore a few of the empowering and self-affirming ways to approach the challenges of modern dating as a feminist.

Eco-Feminism: Social Justice and the Environment


Although no single definition of eco-feminism exists, I would define it as a feminism that works to examine how environmental degradation and climate change impact communities and community members based on their socio-economic status and gender. And it’s important that the valuable intersectional perspective of eco-feminism doesn’t get lost amidst the green frenzy on Earth Day.