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Authentically Loving the Skin I’m in – ‘Flaws’ and All
Would you ever think to include your acne on the list of things to love about yourself? This article gives an argument for why loving the skin you’re in could mean exactly that.
Read MoreBeyond 50 Shades: The Reality Behind 3 Myths About BDSM
It’s important to discuss kink from a feminist perspective because of the harm that misinformation about our desires can cause. This misinformation can lead to feelings of disempowerment in one’s a/sexuality and relationships, and erardicating that should be part of the foundation of any intersectional feminist movement. So let’s bust three common myths about BDSM.
Read MoreFeminists Have Food and Body Image Issues Too: 5 Ways to Get Over the Shame
I was a full-blown feminist in college. I also had a full-blown eating disorder. I came to feminism because I could feel the injustice in my obsession. Feminism gave me the framework to see that my eating disorder was part of something larger. But I still couldn’t tell anyone because I felt like a bad feminist. Here’s 5 ways I worked through that inappropriate shame.
Read More10 Things Cosmo Doesn’t Teach Women About Great Sex
Cosmo has a lot to say about sex. But what they have to say is based on tired stereotypes, heteronormativity, and traditional gender roles. As such, most of their “advice” is anything but helpful. They aren’t giving women the factual and comprehensive information about sex that they probably need. So instead, remember these rules for having great sex.
Read MoreOMG, Un-Tag Me!: Photo Sharing and Body Image in the Facebook Generation
Social media trends change as rapidly as the technology itself, and we need to make sure that our dialogue with teens about body image and self-esteem (dialogue that includes listening) is changing just as rapidly. Because the Facebook Generation is the next generation of thinkers, leaders, parents, and activists. They’ll be the ones changing the world. And we need them to be fully present in it!
Read MoreBeauty Whitewashed: How White Ideals Exclude Women of Color
While we talk a lot about harmful media beauty ideals like extreme thinness, sex appeal, etc, one of the most oppressive ideals excludes anyone who isn’t white – ie whitewashing of beauty. And in our society, it has a negative impact on females who rarely see images of their own races depicted in a positive manner and on how white people (and all people) view women of color.
Read More4 Ways Sexism Contributed to My Eating Disorder – And How Feminism Helped Me Heal
It’s not always as simple as wanting to “look like a model” – these connections between sexism and eating disorders aren’t often talked about.
Read MoreWhat Happens When People Think You Don’t Look Like You Have an Eating Disorder
“That’s what’s so hard…no one sees it.” Do you think you can tell if someone has an eating disorder just by looking at them? Think again.
Read MoreThis Touching Note to Self Can Inspire You to Face Your Insecurities
This poet’s moving note to self can remind you that you have nothing to be ashamed of, and your body needs your voice.
Read MoreSh*t People Say to Native People
“What kind of Indian are you?” “Do you live in teepees?” “If I had an Indian name, it would be Tail Feather, because I can shake it!” This satirical video captures the unfortunate truth of what too many people say to Native people, and the result is hilarious. Watch now to learn common stereotypical beliefs that come with conversations about Native culture.
Read MoreWatch Feminists Read Mean Tweets About Themselves
(TW: threats of rape, violence, stalking.) If you aren’t a woman who’s vocal about feminist issues on the Internet, you may not be aware of how severely they are harassed. And plenty of people still deny that the issue is serious. Check out this video to see for yourself some of the hate-filled threats that women with opinions get on a day-to-day basis.
Read MoreWhat Walking Through Life With Thunder Thighs is Really Like
Having a body that differs from society’s beauty standard isn’t easy. Anyone with thunder thighs can attest to that. But with Desireé Dallagiacomo’s take, it isn’t all bad.
Read MoreWhy I Stand Up to Politically Incorrect Jokes
I’ve had this experience a million times. It’s one of the complicated realities that come along with being a progressive-minded person: The jokes just aren’t as funny anymore. When we can see the humanity behind the people who these jokes target, and when we understand the implications of the privileged laughing at the marginalized, we lose our ability to laugh at their expense.
Read MoreOutdoor Recreation Isn’t Free – Why We Need to Stop Pretending It Is
Think anyone can spend time in nature if they’re motivated enough? Think again – here are a few ways that having privilege gives you more access to outdoor fun.
Read More6 Questions to Ask Yourself While Planning a Wedding
“Who is this really for?” At 20, she said she’d never get married. These questions helped her define her wedding day for herself.
Read MoreYes, Poor People Have Eating Disorders, Too
“Eating disorders aren’t just for rich white girls.” Stereotypes about who “can” have eating disorders are having some awful consequences.
Read MoreNo, Trans Women Athletes Do Not Have Unfair Advantages
Do you think it’s unfair for trans women athletes to compete in women’s sports? Then you need to know this info that too many people are missing.
Read More4 Lessons Feminism Has Taught Me About My Relationship to Food and Fitness
You may know that many norms around food and fitness are messed up – but that doesn’t mean they’re easy to shake off. These feminist lessons could help.
Read MoreYour Guide On How to Support Black People After Incidents of Police Violence
“#1. Don’t Demand We Share Our Thoughts On Every Black Murder.” It can be hard to know how to support black folks right now – but this guide is a start.
Read More5 Ways to Share Your Fitness Life on Social Media More Thoughtfully
It’s okay to practice fitness in whatever way feels good to you – so it can be frustrating to be told that posting about your self-care might be triggering. This author gets it, and has some great strategies to help.
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