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The Worst Thing About Being Catcalled Is My Guilt
Have you ever blamed yourself for being catcalled? A stunning perspective on carrying shame from street harassment.
Read More4 Reasons I Feel Guilty For Not Wanting Children
You shouldn’t have to feel guilty for not wanting to have children – but here are some of the reasons you’re not alone if you feel just that.
Read More5 Important Notes Every High School Activist Needs
High schoolers are doing some impressive activism these days – but it can be challenging to balance school with activism. These tips can help.
Read More3 Reasons I Hate the Question ‘What Do You Do for a Living?’
“What do you do?” This author saw a big difference in how this question comes up in the US and in Cuba. Find out why it seems like an absurd question now.
Read More4 Reasons I Don’t Consider Orgasm the Goal of Sex
Aiming for orgasm can be empowering, right? Not for everyone. So here’s how having a less climax-focused sex life has helped this author.
Read More8 Ways to Reconnect with Your Sexuality After Pregnancy
As a new parent, you might need some support adjusting to changes in your sex life. Try these strategies to navigate these changes in a healthy way.
Read MoreThis Funny Advice Will Show You When It’s Okay to Speak Up
Ever wanted someone to leave you alone, but didn’t want to be rude? Anna Akana’s got some super relatable and encouraging advice for situations like this.
Read More6 Steps You Can Take If You Start Slipping into Old Unhealthy Patterns
“Life has a funny way of interfering with our goals to live healthy, balanced lives.” Slipping into old behavior patterns? Try these strategies to get back on track.
Read MoreMy Tinder Date Assaulted Me – And I Blamed Myself
There’s a narrative around hookup culture that lends to victim-blaming – and it can even lead victims to blame themselves. Here’s what needs to change.
Read More5 Common Behaviors That Perpetuate Toxic Capitalism
Do you tie your self-worth to work or money? You’re not the only one – and these habits don’t come out of nowhere. Here’s how toxic capitalist values are hurting us.
Read More4 Strategies for Dealing with Imposter Syndrome
Ever experienced imposter syndrome – like thinking you don’t deserve your success? You’re no fraud, and you’re not alone. These tips can help.
Read MoreWhat You Need to Know About Becoming Sober as a Trauma Survivor
Trauma shouldn’t be something taboo to discuss in recovery circles – so here’s what this author wishes she had known about being a trauma survivor in recovery.
Read More3 Reasons Why I’m Unapologetically Open About My Experiences of Rape
Why would someone be open about experiencing sexual assault in a society that condemns people for doing so? These are some empowering reasons.
Read More5 Feelings I Struggle with Because of Internalized Mental Health Stigma
If you have any mental illnesses, then you’re probably familiar with mental health stigma – and how it can make you feel. Celia Edell shares how she’s unlearning the lies of the stigma.
Read More4 Teenage Girl Tropes Spreading Dangerous Stereotypes in the Media
#1: “The ‘jailbait’ teenage girl.” You’ve probably encountered these types of teenage girls in the media – but have you thought about what they say about our society?
Read More4 Ways Therapists Failed Me As a Woman
Stereotyping, making assumptions – it’s hard to find healing with mental health professionals following these patterns. Here’s what many therapists could do differently.
Read MoreAn Open Letter to My Former Abuser
Every survivor’s experience is different, but if you’ve been through partner abuse, this story of strength and survival can remind you of why you never deserved abuse.
Read More5 Lessons Buffy Taught Me That Helped Me Survive Depression
“Our wounds don’t make us weak – they make us human.” Fiction can be more than just entertainment. Turns out Buffy the Vampire Slayer had some great mental health tips!
Read MoreCan Abuse Be Unintentional? 3 Reasons That’s the Wrong Question to Ask
“I don’t think they meant to be abusive.” Do you think intent matters when it comes to abuse? Here’s why we should focus on different questions instead.
Read More4 Important Reasons Why Disability Visibility Matters
This author’s actively choosing to be visibly disabled. What does that mean? Read this and you’ll know why disability visibility is an act of radical love.
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