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I Think I Might Not Be Straight – So What Am I?
I’m not going to tell you that labels are for soup cans, although I understand that sentiment. But the secret that no one is telling you is this: This is who you are, and your experience is valid – with or without a label affixed. But for everyone who’s got a hold on identifying their feelings, but needs help figuring out a label, let’s talk about it.
Read More9 Lies People Tell You When You Come Out as Bisexual – And How to Heal From Them
“Pick a side,” “You’re confused” – if you haven’t come across these biphobic messages yet, you probably will. Here’s why they’re all wrong about you – with the affirming truth of what it means to be bisexual.
Read MoreMonosexism: Battling the Biases of Bi/Panphobia
Typically, we only discuss sexism in terms of gender, but it also has applicability to biases related to sexuality. Monosexism is synonymous with bi/panphobia in many ways because it perpetuates the myth that a person can only truly be attracted to one gender. But someone’s sexuality is not a tool for you to reassert your own social legitimacy at the expense of others.
Read MoreImages of Butches and Femmes: Celebrating Our Living Queer Legacy!
There are so many beautiful intersections of LGBTQIA identity and love. This photo-series captures and celebrates the beauty of how contemporary Femme and Butch people express and love themselves, both autonomously and in relationship to each other. There is so much joy, passion, and pride in these pictures. This is what liberation looks like.
Read MoreWhat Does Multigender Mean? 10 Questions You May Be Afraid to Ask – Answered
Yes, it’s possible to have multiple genders – and if you’ve got questions about being multigender, check out these informative answers.
Read More5 Reasons We Need to Stop Saying That All Women Are Bisexual
Have you come across the idea that all women are bisexual? This close look at the source and impact of that idea shows why we need to reject it.
Read More6 Affirmations for Trans Folks Who Don’t Feel ‘Trans Enough’
What do you have to do to be “trans enough?” Spoiler alert: Your gender isn’t up for debate. These affirmations will remind you of just that.
Read MoreHow to Support Your Child Who Is Questioning Their Sexual Orientation
Many parents are uncomfortable with this process – but if you understand what it means for your child to question their sexual orientation, you’ll be better prepared to give vital support. Here’s what you need to know.
Read MoreHow to Talk About Race with Your White Boyfriend
Some people claim that love is (color)blind. But it hasn’t even been 50 years since laws prohibiting interracial relationships were outlawed, and the effects of that history are still in play today. So how do people navigate this history of tension, privilege, and oppression when they’re also trying to date each other? Here are some ways to approach the topic.
Read MoreWhy As A Man, I Need Feminism
Saying “I am a feminist” causes several kinds of reactions when coming from me, a male. Ranging from an inquisitive if not suspicious “why?” to sweet praise borne not out of understanding, but rather out of amazement if not amusement. And yet the one reaction I’ve always wanted, “So what? Think you’re special? Who isn’t?”, is one I’ve sadly yet to experience. But here’s why I’m a feminist.
Read MoreWhat Nobody Who Says Talking About Race ‘Divides’ Us Seems to Understand
How do you feel when people don’t acknowledge your identities? Jamia Wilson shares a powerful perspective on intersectionality.
Read MoreThings Black Women with Natural Hair Are Tired of Being Told
“Oh my God, did you cut your hair?” If you can relate to getting these comments, you’ll love this hilarious video. Everyone else should take note of why it’s best to avoid these microaggressions.
Read MoreHow Moms Still Get Pushed Out of the Workplace (And Dads Don’t)
Can you spot the glaring problem in Ivanka Trump’s childcare policy? Here’s how our stereotypes about gender are forcing moms out of the workplace.
Read More‘Dear RCA’ – This Catchy Tune Stands Up for Orthodox Women Rabbis
How do you feel about the Rabbinical Council of America’s position on women as rabbis? Talia Lakritz stands up for Orthodox Jewish women leaders with an awesome original song.
Read MoreWhat Would Happen If Men Were Treated Like Women in Hollywood?
What if people in Hollywood treated men like they treat women? Some objectification, entitlement, and more come out in this funny take.
Read MoreCan Kids Handle Learning About Trans Issues?
Do you have any concerns about talking to your kids about transgender issues? Kat Blaque’s chatting about the best time for these conversations – and her insights might surprise you.
Read MoreHere’s a Much-Needed History Lesson on the Origins of the Term ‘Women of Color’
Have you ever wondered where the term “women of color” came from? Have you mistakenly assumed that it was created by white people? Are you unsure about how you feel about it? Check out this awesome video where Loretta Ross gives a history lesson on how it came to be, what it really means, and why it’s so important. Let us know if you use it – and why or why not.
Read MoreThis Funny Advice Will Show You When It’s Okay to Speak Up
Ever wanted someone to leave you alone, but didn’t want to be rude? Anna Akana’s got some super relatable and encouraging advice for situations like this.
Read MoreBarbie Dolls and Bollywood – And Why Media Representation Matters for Self-Love
So many girls of color can relate to this author’s experience with dolls and films. Find out how she learned to love herself as an Indian woman, and you’ll see why representation matters.
Read More4 Ways Therapists Failed Me As a Woman
Stereotyping, making assumptions – it’s hard to find healing with mental health professionals following these patterns. Here’s what many therapists could do differently.
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