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5 Ways Trans People Can Support Other Trans People
This author has noticed some disturbing trends in how trans folks can actually perpetuate transphobia against other trans folks in the community. Here are some important ideas for what to do about it.
Read MoreHelp! I Think I Might Be Non-Binary, But How Can I Know?
Questioning your assigned gender can be really hard, but here’s a clear guide that can help you answer your questions and figure out your feelings.
Read More5 Ways Your Critiques of Psychiatry Might Be Ableist
Originally published on Let’s Queer Things Up! and cross-posted here with his permission. I won’t beat around the bush: Mental illness has pushed me to the edge many, many times. There were times when I was so detached from reality, it necessitated urgent and even drastic interventions to bring me back. There were times when the pain…
Read More6 Questions to Ask If You Have More Privilege Than Your Partner
Can you relate more to this author or her partner? If your partner has a marginalized identity you don’t share, these questions may help you be supportive.
Read More4 Ways We Need to Rethink Violence and Activism Today
Protests in Berkeley have misconceptions about violence and activism in the news again. But “it’s time to recognize that not all violence is created equal.”
Read More3 Ways Biphobia Hurts Bisexual People’s Mental Health
“It’s just a phase.” You’ve probably come across negative bisexual stereotypes – but do you know how they affect the mental health of bisexual people? This article shows how you can help, and why it’s so important to do so.
Read MoreA Parent and Feminist Guide to ‘Rogue One: A Star Wars Story’
Are you excited about Rogue One? Here’s how this Star Wars film holds up on diversity, women’s roles, and more.
Read More4 Ways That Call-Out Culture Fails Trans Women (And Therefore, All of Us)
This kind of calling out of a “problematic” trans woman might be familiar. We need to consider these points about call-out culture’s impact on marginalized people.
Read MoreSo Your Trans Friend Is Transitioning and You Want to Be Supportive – Here Are 6 Ways How
Got a friend who’s transitioning, but not sure how to be supportive – especially if you haven’t worked out your own feelings yet? That’s okay! Let this article be your guide.
Read More8 Steps Toward Building Indispensability (Instead of Disposability) Culture
In social justice communities and in call-out culture, we often treat people like they’re disposable when they mess up. What if we tried this instead?
Read More8 Things to Consider in Polyamorous Dating Before Committing to Another Partner
If you’re non-monogamous, in a relationship, and considering entering a new relationship, you might not find much info on how to navigate your situation. Try asking yourself these questions.
Read MoreThe Most Popular Children’s Toys Set Our Girls Back in These Ridiculous Ways
What did you learn from your toys when you were a child? The answer may depend on whether you were raised as a boy or a girl. For a clear picture of the absurd differences between what society expects of men and of women, look no further than this comic. Here’s what everyone should realize about how we empower boys and disempower girls – and why we need to stop.
Read MorePreserving the Status Quo: The Use of Slippery Slopes Throughout US History
So many people like to argue that society can’t possibly change to accommodate all the needs of its oppressed and marginalized people (though we’re constantly backflipping to protect and validate privilege). But that argument is never based on facts, research, or precedent. Instead, it uses people’s fear of change and loss to deny oppressed people their rights.
Read MoreBeyond Diversity: How to Build a Truly Anti-Racist Organization
What Would Happen If We Treated Male Politicians Like We Treat Female Politicians?
We laughed, and then we wondered: What does this say about how we understand leadership?
Read MoreEstranged: How I Fell In Love With A Girl And Lost My Family
I didn’t realize how important writing our stories was until I started talking about my story — about being estranged from my family, about marriage, about disappointment. As queer people, we need to share the stories of what happens when things don’t pan out, when things are devastating. There is so much power in sharing our stories. Because as the phrase goes, we are not alone.
Read MoreEver Been Told to ‘Check Your Privilege?’ Here’s What That Really Means
Lots of people – including this author – have gotten angry when they’re told to check their privilege. But a lot of people also believe in these myths. Does this article change how you feel about this?
Read MoreIf You Have Friends and Family Dealing with Substance Abuse and Addiction, Here Are 5 Ways to Support Them
This author just celebrated one year of sobriety – and he’s got some insights on supporting your loved ones that you might not have considered.
Read MoreNo Ghost Friends: 9 Feminist Tips for Casual Dating and Phantom-Free Hook-Ups
Casual dating can be scary enough without the possibility of “ghosting.” Here’s how to make sure “casual” isn’t code for “unaccountable” – tips for communication and respect.
Read More5 Reasons People Label You a ‘Bad Feminist’ and Why They’re Total Bullsh*t
If these statements sound familiar, someone may have accused you of being a “bad feminist.” Here’s why you won’t always fit the ideal of a “good feminist” – and why that’s okay.
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