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50 Body Acceptance New Year Resolutions (That Don’t Involve Dieting!)
All the new year’s resolution hype around “weight loss as the key to happiness” can be super harmful. These awesome ideas can help you resolve to actually take care of your body instead.
Read More6 Ways to Respond to Sexist Microaggressions in Everyday Conversations
It can be hard to know what to do when sexist microaggressions happen, especially from someone you care about. Here are some ways to help you respond.
Read More5 Things Not to Do When Interacting with Physically Disabled People
Do you know about the social barriers that can come with everyday ableism? This is a handy list of things to avoid doing when interacting with someone with a physical disability.
Read MoreConcrete Examples of How Video Games Normalize Violence Against Women
Contemporary video game narratives normalize the sexual and murderous objectification, exploitation, and violence against women so cavalierly. One can’t help but question how expose to the murderous rape culture of this media influences the perspectives and behaviors of its players. How long will we tolerate such gruesomely misogynist depictions of abuse?
Read MoreLaw & Order: SVU vs. Reality: Offensively Different
The depiction of rape in the media is not an inherently bad thing. But it is a bad thing when rape is part of a story line just for entertainment, for added suspense and sparkle. When television shows like Law & Order: SVU use and capitalize on rape as a means to allure viewers, the “featured” rape story becomes reduced to a mere gimmick, which is troubling and offensive.
Read More‘Who’s the Man?’: Heteronormativity and Queer Relationships
People in queer relationships are often subjected to a barrage of ignorance from the straight community. The most annoying is: “Who’s the man and who’s the woman?” Ah yes, because as queer-identified people, the first thing we want you to do is shoehorn normative gender roles into our relationship! But believe it or not, it’s none of your business.
Read More5 Battles the LGBTQIA+ Movement Needs to be Fighting (Beyond Marriage Equality)
The Supreme Court’s historic decision on marriage equality doesn’t mean the fight is over – we can’t miss these important issues calling for change.
Read MoreWhy We Need to Stop Policing the Gender of Men Who Like ‘Feminine’ Things
Jaden Smith sometimes wears so-called “women’s clothing” – and the people criticizing him for it have gender all wrong. Here’s Kat Blaque with an explanation that will help you get it right.
Read MoreWhy I’m Pro-Choice
I am pro-choice because I believe women’s lives matter. I am pro-choice because I think women themselves are the best people to decide when and if they get pregnant, give birth, and raise children. I am pro-choice because I believe that the right to control your own reproduction is a fundamental right, and is protected both under our Constitution and basic human rights ideals.
Read MoreThe Grim Reality of Female Characters in Superhero Films
Superhero films are known for their male-centric nature. Women are left sorting through the female characters that we are offered, and boy, is it grim. The common question that comes up when chatting with people about the role of gender in superhero films is: “Well, he is sexy too, isn’t he? It’s unfair to both sexes.” And the answer is yes, it is. But there’s more.
Read More5 Reasons We Need to Stop Making Jokes About Men Who Have Been Raped By Women
There was a terrible backlash after actor Shia LaBeouf told a reporter that a woman raped him. And unfortunately, the jokes made at his expense are not unusual. Here’s why the truth about male rape survivors is no laughing matter.
Read MoreHow Body Love Can Change Society for the Better
What would happen if we stopped trying to satisfy an arbitrary standard of beauty, and focused on loving what we have? According to Jes Baker, a lot would change.
Read More4 Questions to Ask the Pro-Science, Anti-Feminist Advocates in Your Life
“Men and women are fundamentally different.” Do you know anyone who thinks science and biology prove feminism wrong? Try asking these questions to show them what science is really saying.
Read More9 Strategies for Dealing with Body Dysphoria for Genderqueer and Trans Folks
If you can relate to this author’s sense of loss, you may have experienced gender dysphoria. These strategies can help.
Read MoreA Super Clever Answer to the Inadequate Question of ‘Male or Female?’
Have you ever had to deal with the dilemma of checking “male” or “female?” Some of us just can’t be confined to those boxes. And you shouldn’t have to be! Here’s a comic that captures the frustration of this moment. Let the hero of this comic be a hero for all of us whose true identities can’t be defined by these small boxes. You deserve to feel free to be you.
Read MoreHow Disablist Western Ideas of ‘Self-Determination’ Undermine Social Justice and 5 Ways to Make It Right
Self-determination – making your own choices – is so important. But let’s be careful about the difference between self-determination from a colonial perspective and how it’s defined in Indigenous struggles. If we don’t, it can be used to actively perpetuate marginalization and hurt disabled people. Here’s how you can take up self-determination in a justice framework.
Read More9 Toxic Relationship Habits We Mistake as Healthy
Sometimes, the relationship habits that we romanticize or consider to be ‘normal’ can actually be damaging and unhealthy.
Read MoreDo Gay Men Have Unhealthier Body Image?
“It was not uncommon to hear ‘There is no worse fate than to be fat and gay.’” Cristen Conger is examining some of the top theories on body image on gay men. Do any of them relate to your experience?
Read More3 Common Complaints About Political Correctness (That Completely Miss the Point)
“People are too sensitive!” You’ve probably encountered the claim that “political correctness” has gone too far – but here’s why that’s more of an excuse than a real argument.
Read MoreWhy Our Conversations About Street Harassment Need To Include Trans Women
Thankfully, street harassment as such is increasingly being acknowledged in our society. But we almost always discuss it in terms of how cisgender women are being targeted – without mentioning other groups who are also disproportionally targeted such as trans women, particularly trans women of color. We need to make sure we include them too. Here’s why.
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