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From Truth Telling to Land Return: 4 Ways White People Can Work for Indigenous Justice
How would the US be different with a constitution focusing on human rights, rather than property rights? For one thing, it’d would’ve been harder for European colonists to legally justify slavery, genocide, and the left of land. We can’t rewrite the old constitution, but here’s why we need to act and what we can do to recenter Indigenous people in our country.
Read MoreStop Thinking They’re ‘Out of Your League’ – And Try This Instead
Ever felt like someone you wanted to date was “out of your league?” Here are the thought patterns this concept traps you in – with more helpful ways to think about dating.
Read More9 Things Not to Say to a Non-Binary Person
“Isn’t that something Tumblr made up?” Some people are just rude about non-binary genders, but even some would-be allies tend to say these things.
Read MoreNeed Help Dealing with Trolls? These Feminists Have 5 Ideas
Dealing with trolls can make going online a nightmare. Which strategy do you use?
Read More7 Ways to Be a Better Ally to LGBTQIA+ Parents
This author meets many people who want to be her ally, but don’t know where to start. These tips can help you support queer families in everyday ways.
Read MoreMen, Wake Up: 3 Types of Toxic Masculinity to Leave Behind in 2017
How can you build a healthier masculinity for the new year? Challenging these damaging parts of the toxic masculinity status quo is a good start.
Read More10 Signs That Made Me Realize I Was an Alcoholic (And Not Just a ‘Party Girl’)
“How did I go from being a carefree party girl to full-blown alcoholic?” This author realized alcoholism wasn’t what she thought it was – and that it actually includes a lot of her former behavior.
Read MoreI’m Gender Non-Conforming – And I Need People to Stop Pressuring Me to ‘Pass’
The idea of “passing” (or “looking cis”) often comes up as a goal for trans people. But not everyone wants to pass – and here’s why this author and other gender non-conforming people need us to ditch the idea.
Read MoreDo You See These 10 Everyday Sexisms?
When women take note of sexism during their daily lives, they stop accepting it as “normal.” But, in general, sexism, so densely woven into our habits, language, and traditions, is a subtle and slippery thing. Research shows that most people don’t see sexism even when it’s right in front of their noses. How do you think about and respond to these 10 everyday sexisms?
Read More4 Ways Mainstream Animal Rights Movements Are Oppressive
You can be invested in animal rights, veganism, or vegetarianism without perpetuating other forms of oppression – but be sure to steer clear of these common ways the mainstream movements can be hurtful.
Read MoreHere’s Why ‘Raising Awareness’ About Trans Lives Isn’t Good Enough
Caitlyn Jenner, Janet Mock, Laverne Cox. With trans people more visible than ever in the media, the way most of us talk about trans issues is misleading – and even harmful. Here’s how we can do better.
Read More3 Reasons to Drop the Lie That Married Parents Are Inherently Better for Children
Is marriage really better for children? This research reveals the real culprit of kids’ struggles – and why simply pushing for marriage won’t solve anything.
Read More3 Misogynistic ‘Rules’ That Held Me Back at Work – And How I’ve Challenged Them
Can you believe what some people have said to her about her work? This shows why it’s important to be aware of gender norms at work.
Read MoreHow to Explain Feminism to Non-Feminist Women in a Non-Threatening Way
Lately, I’ve noticed a frightening Internet trend. It’s the #WomenAgainstFeminism movement. Do these anti-feminists really know what they’re talking about? Do they understand what feminism is, or are they ascribing their beliefs to antiquated or invented stereotypes about the movement? And how can we talk to anti-feminists about feminism in a healthy way?
Read MoreWhy Every Man Should Care About Abortion Rights
Do you know how much men influence access to abortion? While it’s called a “women’s issue,” men play a powerful role in abortion rights and stigma – and here’s the info that too many men are missing.
Read More4 Obstacles for Latinas in Higher Education – And Why It’s Time For a Change
Can you relate to this author’s college struggles? Here are some of the obstacles making it harder for Latinas to succeed in higher education.
Read MoreOur Society Divides Sexual Violence Survivors into ‘Good’ and ‘Bad’ – And There’s an Oppressive History Behind It
Have you noticed how society treats some survivors as “good” and some as “bad?” Here’s the disturbing truth about where that comes from.
Read More4 Ways to Make Your Period-Positivity More Inclusive
You might know how great period-positivity can be – debunking harmful myths about menstruation is important. But do you know who period-positivity tends to exclude? Here’s how to include more people who need it.
Read MoreMass-Producing Heteronormalism Leads to a Better Capitalist Society
Capitalism! Love it or hate, that’s the economy we rely on in America. Capitalism affects every aspect of our lives in very unique and complicated ways. It fuels industries like film, television, print, and digital media. It fuels — well, everything, including an atmosphere of homophobia and heternormalism in the media.
Read More3 Unethical Ways Medical and Nursing Students Are Taught to Do Pelvic Exams
Many people have had negative experiences with the gynecologist – but it doesn’t have to be this way. These harmful ways of learning pelvic exams are disturbing.
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