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I Didn’t Know My Boyfriend Was Abusive Since He Never Hit Me
Abuse from a partner doesn’t have to be physical. This author’s account of emotional abuse is chilling.
Read More10 Ways Men Can Combat Sexist Entitlement in Public
When we pair the entitlement that men too often feel with the everyday misogyny that women face, we have a dangerous combination. And we cannot expect women to be the only ones leading men to change. If we do, then we are surely contributing to the wider problem. So here are 10 simple ways that men can combat sexist entitlement in public.
Read More6 Ways to Support a Survivor of Woman-on-Woman Sexual Violence
“Will I be taken seriously?” All survivors deserve support – including survivors of woman-on-woman rape. Here’s how to give that support.
Read More5 Lies People Love to Tell Activists About Violence – And Why You Shouldn’t Believe Them
Think MLK “wouldn’t approve” of violence in activism? That’s just one of the myths this article exposes as a straight up lie.
Read MoreThese 7 Common Responses to Sexual Violence Are Actually Really Harmful – Here’s What to Say Instead
You likely know not to say these things to survivors. But do you know what you can say instead?
Read More3 Common Ways Our Personal Actions Don’t Match Our Political Values — And How It Hurts Our Movements
We can relate to this – solidarity in our movements, but hurting each other in our personal lives. Can you?
Read MoreWhy Our Feminism Must Be Intersectional (And 3 Ways to Practice It)
Those of us calling for an inclusive feminism aren’t the ones being “divisive.” But those of us refusing to acknowledge the need for intersectionality in feminism are.
Read MoreWhy We Need to Stop Normalizing Painful Sex
She was terrified after hearing that sex would hurt. But painful sex is not inevitable – and these are some awful results of saying that it is.
Read More3 Truths About Love and Sex I Discovered While Dating as an Asian Trans Femme
#1: “Sexual attraction has everything to do with race.” Do you think attraction is just a “natural preference” outside of our control? These important lessons show otherwise.
Read More20 Examples That Prove White Privilege Protects White People From the Police
You’ve heard some of the stories – but police targeting of people of color is more common than you may think. Here’s the outrageous truth of what’s really going on.
Read More3 Compelling Truths About Feminism That All Black Men Should Consider
As the Black community continues to fight against anti-Black violence, legislation, and other forms of racist oppression, we must also learn how to be better allies and support systems to each other. This article asks the community to consider feminism as a tool to unite Black people across gender and heal the patriarchal remnants of slavery and white supremacy.
Read More5 Ways Your Stereotyping of Bisexual People Feeds into Rape Culture
Have you noticed how many stereotypes about bisexuality relate to the harmful gender norms of rape culture? You will after reading this.
Read More6 Tips for Making Your Conversations About Reproductive Rights More Trans-Inclusive
On January 21, 2017, millions of people around the world participated in The Women’s March. A Facebook event that quickly went viral, the march was a powerful display of resistance and solidarity that coalesced around a number of issues including reproductive rights and fighting back against sexual assault. But, for many transgender people, the march…
Read MoreThe Top 5 Feminist Conspiracies (According to Our Trolls)
Who has time for all these plans anyway? If you ask anti-feminist trolls, you do – catch up with what you’re supposed to be plotting for the Feminist Agenda.
Read More3 Things To Consider When Choosing Between Calling Someone Out Or Calling Them In
There’s been a lot of talk lately critiquing call-out culture – and a lot of the concerns are valid. But is calling in always the answer? Or can that sometimes reproduce oppression inside social justice movements? Read this to get the lowdown on when each approach might be useful by centering on how to be most survivor-centered and how to achieve the results you want.
Read More4 Ways the ‘Boys Will Be Boys’ Attitude Harms the Men in Our Lives
What do we really mean by “boys will be boys”? We need to stop what this expectation of masculinity is doing to men and boys.
Read More4 Reasons Why Tattooed Women Need Feminism
Women with body modifications like tattoos and piercings face a unique set of challenges with public examination. Here’s what makes this a feminist issue.
Read More5 Ways Amatonormativity Sets Harmful Relationship Norms For Us All
Aromantic people know that society’s norms for romantic relationships don’t apply to everyone. But these norms affect all of us, whether we’re romantic or not, and here’s how they’re hurting us.
Read MoreWhy We Must Stop Believing Pain and Illness Are Punishments for Our Mistakes
This author knew how healing was “supposed” to look – and she internalized the messages that she had to “fix” herself to deserve love and wellness. If you can relate, these touching reflections are for you.
Read More6 Unexpected Ways I’ve Healed From Gaslighting Abuse and Learned to Trust Myself Again
Gaslighting makes you doubt your own memory and perceptions – which can feel impossible to recover from. This author found some surprising ways to heal, and she hopes these tips can help you, too.
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