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Here’s Why You Shouldn’t ‘Debate’ with People Online
Let’s get real about “online debates” – what are they really good for? This comic has some much better ideas.
Read More2014: The LGBTQ Year In Review
There’s been a lot of awesome victories for LGBTQ people in 2014! From protection against workplace discrimination, famous people coming out, to trans women of color changing the world, this video of Camille Beredjick of GayWrites provides an awesome list of how more and more people are talking about and taking action to support LGBTQ rights.
Read More4 Myths About Intimate Partner Violence in Lesbian Relationships
The idea that intimate partner violence occurs in lesbian relationships may seem ridiculous. But this belief isn’t only false; it’s damaging. It can prevent lesbians from seeking help when they are in an abusive relationship. After all, who’s going to believe them? Here are four myths about IPV in lesbian relationships that can prevent women from seeking help.
Read MoreNeed Proof of Rape Culture? Here Are 5 Ridiculous Things Some Men Say When Accused of Rape
Check out these ways that men often react to being accused of rape – and how society accepts their excuses. What would you add to the list?
Read More4 Reasons We Need to Quit Describing Trans People As ‘Self-Hating’
You probably know the trope of the trans person who hates their body. If you’re defining trans experiences this way, here’s how you may be missing the point.
Read More3 Reasons Why ‘Just’ Seeing a Therapist Isn’t That Simple
If you’re giving out advice to “just go to therapy,” you might be making one of these harmful assumptions.
Read MoreWhen It’s A Popularity Contest: Here’s How To Redistribute Social Capital In Activist Spaces
The ideas around social capital and popularity often run alongside privilege and desirability politics. Previously, I wasn’t aware of these terms. But after a few, let’s say, “discussions” with other organizers, I’m was made aware of the ways social capital can create hierarchies in organizing spaces. These conversations led to a few things: Some folks…
Read More10 Tips to Remember If You Have Borderline Personality Disorder
It can be scary to be diagnosed with borderline personality disorder (BPD) – and the stigma sure doesn’t help. Find some hope with these encouraging reminders.
Read More5 Steps to Self-Care After the Holidays
With the passage of the new year, most consider the holiday season to be officially over. Almost overnight, we turn our focus to self-improvement. Holidays can be a stressful time for many. The resulting strain can leave you feeling exhausted and resistant to starting your next chapter. If you’re feeling holiday burnout, here are some self-care tips for the new year.
Read More6 Messages Suicide Attempt Survivors Urgently Need
If you’ve attempted suicide, you might be dealing with a lot of pain and stigma. You deserve these loving reminders – so keep them close.
Read MoreWhy Apologies Are Powerful Tools for Combating Rape Culture
“The mainstream idea of ‘justice’ after rape in our society is ridiculously limited.” Here’s how apologies could help expand our idea of justice for survivors.
Read More3 Ways to Use Selfies to Make Peace with Your Mental Illness
What’s your opinion on selfies? Check out this author’s insights on how people with mental illness, disability, and neurodivergence can use them for self-care, and you might get a whole new outlook.
Read MoreSoft Grunge: Mental Illness Is Not a Style
More than ever, the millenial generation has eagerly embraced the “sad chic” mentality. We worship existentialism as long as it has shiny packaging, with pretty people saying poetic things. Soft grunge basically transforms taboo emotions into an aesthetic. This appropriation of mental illness is troubling, and this is where the commodification and idolization of soft grunge becomes a problem.
Read MoreWant to Come Out As Polyamorous to Your Parents, But Not Sure Where to Start? Try These 5 Tips
Figuring how to tell your parents you’re polyamorous can be tricky, but for many polyamorous people, it’s an important step. If you’re considering this step, here are some helpful things to keep in mind.
Read MoreSocial Media Has Its Pitfalls But You Can Use It For Positive Change—Here’s How
Every time I speak up and share people reach out to me; they let me know that they feel empowered to share their own story.
Read More5 Reasons We Need Gender Conscious Responses to Climate Change
The burdens of climate change disproportionately impact women from low-income communities, particularly in the Global South and Indigenous communities.
Read More4 Major Ways to Cope with Social Anxiety
Is social anxiety getting in the way of trying to enjoy your life? This comic has some great coping strategies that might be useful. Do you have any more tips to add?
Read MoreHelp – I’m a Feminist and I Have All These Sexist Thoughts!
Do any of these thoughts sound familiar? We’re guilty of a lot of them, too – and we’re really glad for these smart insights on them.
Read MoreThe Wage Gap Isn’t a Myth (Really, It Isn’t) – Here Are 4 Reasons Why
Ever heard that the wage gap between men’s and women’s pay is a myth? Marina Watanabe’s got the facts to answer to that.
Read More7 Myths About ‘Stealth’ Transexuals That Undermine Valid Choices
What have you heard about transexual people living in “stealth?” Misconceptions about “passing” are common among everyone – including cis and straight folks, LGBQIA+ people, and other trans people. These false ideas undermine the very valid reasons why transexuals make their own choices about how they show up in the world. Here’s an article to help us get it right.
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