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3 Reasons We Need to Be Critical of Sex Positivity in Queer Spaces
Is your queer community super sex-positive? That may not always be a good thing – check this out for some important reasons why.
Read MoreHow Did Public Bathrooms Get to Be Separated By Sex in the First Place?
Think it’s just “natural” to separate bathrooms by sex? This info on the sexism behind it will make you think again – with even more evidence of why trans restroom access matters.
Read MoreYour Sex-Shaming Dress Code Is Distracting My Daughter From Learning
Are school dress codes really about helping create a learning environment? What happened to this author’s daughter will show you why they’re not.
Read More4 Insecure Thoughts I Have During Sex Thanks to Internalized Sexism
#1: “How do I look?” These thoughts are pretty common during sex – but have you considered how misogyny might be the source? Here’s how to deal.
Read MoreHere’s What Every Sexually Active Survivor Deserves in Their Sex Life
“I deserve connection.” It can be tough to feel safe having sex after surviving sexual assault. These are good reminders for both you and your partner(s).
Read MoreWhat Everyone Needs to Know, But Is Afraid to Ask About Fat Sex
Many people feel self-conscious about having sex with smaller partners. This author is a fat woman who’s had lots of awesome sex, and she’s sharing her empowering insights and helpful tips.
Read MoreWhat’s Up with the Stigma Against Men Who Use Sex Toys?
Have you noticed the double standard society applies to men who use sex toys? Cristen Conger’s shutting down the stereotypes, and breaking down what this stigma says about modern masculinity.
Read More4 Sex Myths Your Teen Is Getting at School – And How to Counteract Them
Do you know what your teenager’s learning about things like sexual violence and objectification? These are pretty disturbing – but this article has some solid tips on what you can do about it.
Read MoreIt’s Not ‘Forced Sex,’ It’s Rape – And Why Not Calling It That Is Dangerous
People will talk in all kinds of circles to avoid saying the word “rape.” But do you know about the dangerous affect that has on our world?
Read MoreSex After Sexual Assault: A Guide for When It’s Tough
Sex after sexual assault can be tough. So here’s a helpful guide to getting all the self-care and pleasure you deserve after surviving sexual assault.
Read More17 Lies We Need to Stop Teaching Girls About Sex
Knowledge is power, and we can promote a healthier relationship with sex. But first we need to stop perpetuating the following 17 myths about female sexuality.
Read More17 Lies We Need to Stop Teaching Boys About Sex
Men and boys are a big part of the equation in discussions about sex positivity, so let’s debunk these 17 myths boys often learn about sex.
Read More3 Reasons Why Sex-Positivity without Critical Analysis Is Harmful
I like what sex-positivity sets out to do, but the problem for me is the way that a lot of people practice sex-positivity in the mainstream movement – namely, without a critical analysis component. And I want to talk about that. So here are three points to consider when thinking through this stuff.
Read MoreWhy Saying “Men Are Slaves To Their Sex Drive” Is Insulting To Men
What does it mean to generalize men’s sex drive as no stronger than a dog who humps everything? Men have will, agency – and here’s why they should be held to a higher standard.
Read MoreI Got a STD the First Time I Had Sex
It was April Fool’s Day when my boyfriend told me he (now we) had a STD. I laughed for thirty seconds until I realized he wasn’t joking.
Read More4 Ways To Support Your Friend Who’s Being Sex-Shamed
Thankfully we’ve been hearing more and more about how slut-shaming is wrong. But what do we do when it happens to someone we know?
Read MoreNo Ghost Friends: 9 Feminist Tips for Casual Dating and Phantom-Free Hook-Ups
Casual dating can be scary enough without the possibility of “ghosting.” Here’s how to make sure “casual” isn’t code for “unaccountable” – tips for communication and respect.
Read MoreWhen Consent Feels Complicated, Remember These Teenagers’ Wise Words
We often discuss consent as simply “yes” or “no” – but do you know of situations when it feels more complicated? Degrassi visits a high school for some smart answers on tough questions.
Read More5 Fantastic Ways to Engage in Feminist Hookup Culture
Hookup culture can be really sexist – so is it possible to enjoy casual sex without the misogyny? Yes! Check out these tips for a more empowering time.
Read More9 Questions I Ask Myself Before Having Sex That Might Help You, Too
What if you and a partner have different ideas about sex? What if you want to stop? Here are some things to consider to make sure you’re comfortable and safe having sex.
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