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What It’s Like to Date When You Can’t Have Sex
“I felt like less of a woman.” Society tells us that men need sex – so what does that mean for a straight woman with medical conditions that rule out vaginal intercourse? Here’s how one woman struggled – and found out what she needs.
Read More8 Things to Consider in Polyamorous Dating Before Committing to Another Partner
If you’re non-monogamous, in a relationship, and considering entering a new relationship, you might not find much info on how to navigate your situation. Try asking yourself these questions.
Read More4 Myths That Make Us Fear All First-Time Vaginal Penetration Will Be Painful
Do you believe that all first-time vaginal penetration has to involve pain and bleeding? Actually, for most people, it doesn’t have to be this way! Here are the misguided reasons so many of us believe this is true.
Read MoreWhat Everyone Needs to Know, But Is Afraid to Ask About Fat Sex
Many people feel self-conscious about having sex with smaller partners. This author is a fat woman who’s had lots of awesome sex, and she’s sharing her empowering insights and helpful tips.
Read More6 Things You’re Actually Saying When You Reduce Latinas to the ‘Spicy’ Stereotype
If you’ve seen Latinas on TV, you probably know the “spicy Latina” stereotype – unfortunately, it’s often the only portrayal we get of Latinas in the media. These are the myths this stereotype is spreading.
Read More‘You’re Pretty for an Asian’ – And 5 Other ‘Compliments’ You Need to Stop Saying
Compliments are great – but Asian Americans face a conundrum when it comes to well-meaning “compliments” with racist undertones. Have you made any of these comments?
Read More3 Toxic Messages Behind Seemingly Uplifting Body Positive Mantras – And How to Drop Them
Loving your body isn’t easy with all of these toxic societal messages floating around. But what about when what we THINK is body-positive on social media really isn’t? This author’s got some solutions.
Read More4 Affirmations for Women Learning to Love Their Transness
Do you have examples of what self-love for trans women looks like? Even most of the “Love Your Body” talk fails to address your struggles. So here are some uplifting reminders just for you.
Read MoreHelp! I Have a Weird Relationship with Food, But Is It an Eating Disorder?
Unhealthy “tips” about food are so common that a lot of us have disordered eating patterns and we don’t even know it. Do these signs apply to your eating habits?
Read More5 Ways Anti-Queer Oppression Creates Toxic Friendship Behaviors (And What To Do About It)
Do you recognize these reasons that our queer families can take on unhealthy dynamics? Find out why you deserve to change it – and how.
Read MoreSo Your Trans Friend Is Transitioning and You Want to Be Supportive – Here Are 6 Ways How
Got a friend who’s transitioning, but not sure how to be supportive – especially if you haven’t worked out your own feelings yet? That’s okay! Let this article be your guide.
Read More10 Things Trans Activists and Allies Need to Remember That Have Nothing to Do With Caitlyn Jenner
When someone brings up Caitlyn Jenner as a model trans person, it can actually be a great prompt for expanding the conversation. Here are some ways to help shift our society’s focus from supporting only trans folk who are deemed “acceptable” to addressing cissexism and gender-based oppression.
Read MoreWearing a Bra Should Be a Personal Choice and Not a Social Norm – Here’s Why
We had no idea how much false info we believed about taking care of breasts! Does this change anything about your choices?
Read More5 Common Assumptions You Never Realized Were Classist
Once you read these, you’ll notice how rampant classism is – and how changing these perceptions can help us all.
Read MoreBoy, Girl, Neither, Both? Why Assuming Is Awkward (And What to Ask Instead)
Wow, when you think about this way, the way we’re taught to decode each other’s bodies and genders is actually kind of creepy…
Read MoreNot Sure How to Tell If a Sex Shop Is Feminist? Here Are 8 Questions to Ask
Read this and tell us: Ever had a sex shop experience as regretful or fantastic as these? Here’s to better times for all of us!
Read MoreIt’s Okay to Be Alone: Achieving Self-Empowerment Through Solitude
Some are baffled by those of us who make the choice to be alone. Others think aloneness means something’s wrong with you or that you’re self-centered. Here’s a more empowering perspective. Read about this author’s practice of deliberately spending time alone to see how you can grow your self-confidence all on your own – without needing anyone else to complete you.
Read More5 Ways to Take Care of Yourself While Working in the Service Industry (And 5 Ways to Be a Better Consumer)
Something about working in the service industry makes people think it’s okay to mistreat you. Here are some tips for when work gets hard – and ways consumers can make it easier.
Read MoreWhat’s Your Excuse (For Perpetuating Fitspo’s Ableist Narrative)?
What does it say about how we value bodies when “fitspo” – or “fitspiration” – is so popular? There have been many debates about whether fitspo is empowering or disempowering, but we don’t often think about how fitspiration is highly ableist in its assumptions about health and our ability to work out to extremes. It’s time to expose these assumptions.
Read More8 Things I’d Tell My Younger Self As a Non-Binary Person
What would you tell your younger self? For this author, there’s a lot that he wishes he’d known as a young genderqueer and non-binary person. So here are his words to his younger self, shared with you as a reminder of how important you are. Even if you don’t identify as non-binary, you can read this for comfort and validation wherever your path takes you.
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