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5 Things Even the Most Well-Meaning Non-Disabled People Forget
Have you ever made these mistakes or had to deal with their impact?
Read MoreSome People Have Sexless Relationships – And Here Are Some Things Not to Say to Them
Have you ever made one of these assumptions about people in sexless relationships? Because they can be really hurtful.
Read MoreThis Metaphor for Consent Might Be Just the Thing You Need to Make It Click
We often talk about consent as explicit, verbal, and important for new relationships. But here’s a metaphor that works for first-time sex through long-term relationships.
Read More6 Things To Do If Your Social Justice Job is a Toxic Environment
Unfortunately, as many idealistic activists have found, too many non-profit organizations have dysfunctional work environments. So what can you do if you’re working in one?
Read MoreAbusive ‘Feminist’ Men Exist — Here Are 6 Things Men Can Do to Stop Them
As male feminists, it’s easy to criticize the misogyny of the MRAs. But how often do we turn the lens around? There are stories from every era of the feminism — stories of men talking the talk of feminism, gaining trust, and using that trust to hurt, abuse, and act in profoundly anti-feminist ways. Here are six things we need to do starting right now to fight this.
Read More9 Things Everyone Needs to Stop Saying to Black Women Immediately
Some of these are meant as compliments to black women — but they’ve got roots in some awful stereotypes. It’s about time we put an end to all of the ignorance.
Read More6 Things Every Man Who Dates Trans Women Needs to Know
Because of transmisogyny, dating trans women comes with intense social stigma. Here’s one trans woman’s affirming guidance on navigating shame, loving trans women, and loving yourself.
Read More3 Things You Need to Know About Indigenous Efforts Against the Dakota Access Pipeline
Wondering what’s going on with the Dakota Access Pipeline – and how you can help? If you haven’t been paying attention to this uprising, these are good reasons to start now.
Read More48 Things Men Are Told Over Their Lifetimes (That Are Actually Toxic)
“Boys don’t play with dolls.” How can we address the patriarchy’s impact on men? The first step is to recognize how it harms them – and this video captures 70 years of toxic messages around masculinity. What would you add to the list?
Read More7 Things to Remember If You’re a White Person Dating a Person of Color
When you’re a white person in an interracial relationship, you can’t be a supportive partner without acknowledging white supremacy. Here’s how to practice allyship in your relationship.
Read More8 Things The History Books Don’t Tell Us About Native People
Do history books written by white folks tell the truth about Native people in the US? We think not. Here are just some of the things they fail to mention.
Read More10 Things All White Folks Need to Consider about the #BaltimoreUprising
As a White person, I’m so frustrated in how so many of us are blaming people of Color for their own oppression and condemning them for expressions of grief and rage that make us uncomfortable and afraid. If you find yourself doing that, read this to learn what else you can do if you care about the people of Color who are literally fighting for their lives.
Read More10 Things Every Intersectional Feminist Should Ask On a First Date
If you’re not going to support marginalized folks, then we can’t be friends, let alone date. The personal is political.
Read MoreWhy We Need to Stop Policing the Gender of Men Who Like ‘Feminine’ Things
Jaden Smith sometimes wears so-called “women’s clothing” – and the people criticizing him for it have gender all wrong. Here’s Kat Blaque with an explanation that will help you get it right.
Read MoreTeen Sex Isn’t the Problem (But Thinking That It Is Sure Is)
Contrary to popular belief, being sexually active does not automatically mean a teen has problems and is in need of help. With the appropriate education and resource, sexual connection can be healthy for teenagers. But treating sexually active teens as delinquents and stigmatizing them can create the very problems many claim to be trying to avoid.
Read More8 Things Your LGBTQ Friend Wants You To Know When They Come Out to You
It’s a big moment when your LGBTQ friend comes out to you. Make sure that you don’t make these common mistakes and that you focus on what’s most important.
Read More4 Things You Need to Know Before Planning a Vacation to Hawaii
Your dreams of a Hawaii vacation might include pristine beaches and grass skirts. But your trip would be even better if you know the real history of Hawaii – and how to leave oppression out of your plans.
Read MoreThink It’s #NotAllMen? These 4 Facts Prove You’re Just Plain Wrong
Want to say “not all men” because you’re not like that? Actually, distancing any man from the problem of sexism is dangerous – read this to find out why.
Read MoreDear Men Who Wish to Be Allies to Women: 12 Things You Need to Know
So you’re trying your best to be a good ally to women. Add these strategies to your everyday life to get on the right track!
Read More7 Things We Need to Stop Saying to People Taking Anti-Depressants
“#2: Anti-depressants should be a last resort.” It’s likely that you know someone on anti-depressants – so avoid this stigmatizing language.
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