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5 Dangerous Mistakes I Made When I Started Practicing Polyamory
These are super common – even among people who “get” polyamory in theory. If you’re new to polyamory, this can help you avoid some hurtful mistakes.
Read MoreIf You Think the Dad Bod Phenomenon Is Championing Body-Positivity, Think Again – Here Are 3 Big Reasons We Need to Stop Praising It Now
The “Dad Bod” hype is everywhere right now. Here’s all you really need to know about the sinister, body-policing tone of this sexist trend.
Read MoreSo You Want to Be a Male Feminist? Here Are 11 Simple Rules to Follow
Dear cis men, there’s plenty of room for you in the feminist movement. But first, you must remember that feminism was created to address the unique oppression that women have historically faced, while acknowledging how overwhelmingly present that oppression still is and the many ways in which you benefit from it. Check out this article for more ally protocols.
Read MoreTop 10 Myths About Transgender People
Nearly one million adults in the US identify as transgender. And yet, most people know almost nothing about them. Why do we know so little about transgender people? Because they are systematically silenced on a daily basis. We don’t know them because, frankly, we don’t see them. So let’s confront some of the most common myths about transgender people and change our ways of thinking about them.
Read More3 Alarming Trends in Our Current Political Conversations
#1: “Hate has been given a safe space.” Pay attention to these as we talk about the elections – what do they say about us?
Read More3 Reasons Why Calling Bigots ‘Uneducated’ Is Counter-Productive
Ever used the word “uneducated” to describe someone who’s bigoted? This is why this habit has no place in communities that care about social justice.
Read MoreWhy Businesses Can Still Be Oppressive Even When It Hurts Their Bottom Line
If you think companies won’t jeopardize making money by participating in oppression, here’s what you’ve got wrong.
Read MoreA Reclamation of Our Personal Rights as Victims and Survivors of Sexual Violence
“We the right to heal in our own ways.” Reclaim the rights that have been denied to you – by your perpetrator and by society – with these important reminders.
Read More4 Things We Should Stop Saying to Suicidal People (And What to Try Instead)
“What about the people you’ll leave behind?” It’s hard to know what to say if a friend tells you they’re suicidal. This guide will help.
Read MoreOn Ferguson and 4 Ways We Can Choose to Divest from White Supremacy
Whiteness is a system that was created for the sole purpose of consolidating power in the hands of a few in the US. And so, we face a choice: continue to invest in white supremacy, which dehumanizes everyone, or stand on the side of justice and regain our humanity. Ask yourself: What are you willing to give? And then check out these four ways to divest from whiteness.
Read More10 Practical Ways to Support Someone Struggling Right Now
It’s great to offer to be there for someone – but how can you actually show up when they’re having a tough time? These simple ideas can make it doable!
Read More3 Things to Remind Yourself When Your Healing Process Is Going Slowly
If you’ve ever felt frustrated by how long you’re taking to heal from trauma or mental illness, you’ve got to read these affirming reminders.
Read MoreDo You Have A Social Media Addiction? Here’s How You Can Heal
I have a family history of drug and alcohol addiction and overcame an eating disorder that was rooted in the same constant desire for control, so it was actually painful to think of my social media habits as toxic and addictive.
Read MoreHow to Deal with the Misguided Stigma Against Women’s Body Hair
Ever feel like your body hair makes you less of a woman? This cute comic gets what you’re going through – and it’s got the affirmation you need to deal with the awful stigma.
Read More6 Things To Do If Your Social Justice Job is a Toxic Environment
Unfortunately, as many idealistic activists have found, too many non-profit organizations have dysfunctional work environments. So what can you do if you’re working in one?
Read More9 Things Everyone Needs to Stop Saying to Black Women Immediately
Some of these are meant as compliments to black women — but they’ve got roots in some awful stereotypes. It’s about time we put an end to all of the ignorance.
Read MoreDon’t Fall for These 3 Excuses for Gentrification – They’re Excusing Colonization, Too
Ever heard that gentrification can change neighborhoods in a “positive” way? Here’s why it’s dangerous to think gentrification is inevitable, or even a sign of progress.
Read More5 Things Not to Do When Interacting with Physically Disabled People
Do you know about the social barriers that can come with everyday ableism? This is a handy list of things to avoid doing when interacting with someone with a physical disability.
Read MoreJust Because It Doesn’t Affect You Personally Doesn’t Mean It’s Not Oppressive
Ever come across a social justice issue that didn’t seem like a problem to you? This comic breaks down why people say things like “we’ve got bigger fish to fry” – and why they need to stop.
Read MoreWhy White Women Terrify Me
This author has always supported gender equality – so why are they scared of white women? This is a critical perspective on how white womanhood is weaponized.
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