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6 Things You Might Not Think Are Harassment, But Definitely Are
Many people have no idea what does and does not constitute harassment. Here’s the thing: in our society, men are taught to feel sexually entitled to women. So many men who approach women in public spaces feel they “should” respond positively to their overtures – and then get upset at them when they don’t. Here’s some concrete examples of how this shows up.
Read MoreOutdoor Recreation Isn’t Free – Why We Need to Stop Pretending It Is
Think anyone can spend time in nature if they’re motivated enough? Think again – here are a few ways that having privilege gives you more access to outdoor fun.
Read MoreStop Asking Already: 6 Reasons Why Intimate Partner Violence Survivors Stay in Their Relationships
Do you think ending a relationship with an abusive partner is just a matter of packing up and leaving? Many do but it’s not that simple. We need to abandon the idea if we want to help survivors feel empowered. Here’s six reasons why survivors might stay in their relationships, and why we should stop shaming people who are in need of our support.
Read More10 Common Things Well-Intentioned Allies Do That Are Actually Counterproductive
You’re trying your best to be a supportive ally – so it might be hard to realize that well-meaning people make mistakes. Lots of them. Here’s what you need to know to correct these common behaviors.
Read More3 Surprising Ways I Learned to Love Myself After a Lifetime of Being Ridiculed for My Looks
This author never imagined she’d get to this magical place – a place of self-love. She’s powerful, beautiful, talented, and loveable. But unfortunately, in our society, she’s subject to shame for being fat, Black, bisexual, and a woman with unconventional looks. Read on for her journey in fighting for herself, and you might find some self-love for your own journey.
Read MoreHere’s What Really Happened the Night of Stonewall – And Why It Matters Now
Do you know your LGBTQIA+ history? The trailer for an upcoming film about the Stonewall Riots shows some important details missing. Here’s what you need to know about how today’s fight for liberation started.
Read More5 Ways Advice Columns Harm Us When They Make Sex the Answer to Romantic Problems
We all know that so-called women’s magazines can be harmful, especially in the ways that they talk about sex. But have you ever thought about the way that these columns push sex as a cure-all for relationship ills? These authors have – and what they have to share may surprise you.
Read More3 Important Examples of Why Our Feminism Demands Anti-Racism
Wonder why we talk about race so much? Here’s why anti-racism work isn’t separate from feminist work, but is actually a crucial component to it. These three examples show that we can’t begin to address the experiences of all women until we acknowledge race. Read on to learn more about how we can dismantle oppression by thinking of more than gender in our feminism.
Read MoreI Think I Might Not Be Straight – So What Am I?
I’m not going to tell you that labels are for soup cans, although I understand that sentiment. But the secret that no one is telling you is this: This is who you are, and your experience is valid – with or without a label affixed. But for everyone who’s got a hold on identifying their feelings, but needs help figuring out a label, let’s talk about it.
Read MoreWhy Keeping to Yourself and Ignoring Strangers Is Not the Way to Fight Rape Culture
This story of street harassment isn’t just about the person who assaulted me. It’s also about how other people witnessed my attack and did nothing.
Read MoreThese 4 Behaviors That Fictional Media Tells Us Are Romantic Are Actually Really Harmful
50 Shades of Grey, Twilight, and more – do any of your favorite fictional romances include these unhealthy behaviors? It’s time to think twice about what fictional romance teaches us.
Read More3 Reasons It’s Irrational to Demand ‘Rationalism’ in Social Justice Activism
Mention an idea like abolishing prisons, and some people say you’re not being “rational” or “realistic.” But have you considered these points about how the urge to be rational is holding us back?
Read More4 Common Lies You Should Stop Believing About Black Single Mothers Right Now
“The Black community’s problem is all those unwed mothers raising kids without father figures!” Everyone from Ben Carson to the media spreads these stereotypes – and here’s why they’re wrong.
Read More5 Gaslighting Phrases Donald Trump Used That Remind Me a Lot of My Abusive Ex
“7. I think it’s pure political correctness.” Or is it? Gaslighting is a tactic of abuse, plain and simple. And our new president is cool with it.
Read More10 Reasons Why Rape Culture is So Bad in the Latinx Community
CW: Sexual Assault, Child Sexual Abuse, Violence Against Women Sexual assault is the most underreported crime in the United States, with 63% of sexual assaults never being reported to police. Despite these numbers, Latinx survivors of sexual violence are even less likely to seek out resources after sexual assault than survivors of other racial and…
Read MoreThe Everyday Comments Revealing Classism in Activist Communities
A moving perspective on the everyday complexities of living in poverty – that shows why we have a lot more work to do to address classism in our movements.
Read MoreThese 5 Statistics Prove That We’re Feminizing Poverty (And Keeping Women Down in the Process)
Women are the poorest in their communities, and here’s what you can do about it. Do any of these statistics relate to your life?
Read More3 Ways to Lovingly Talk to Your In-Laws (Or Anyone, for That Matter) About That Hella Oppressive Thing They Just Said
The bad news: Your in-laws are harboring some bigotry. The good news? If you approach them this way, they’re all potential allies.
Read MoreWhat #BlackLivesMatter Is Actually Asking For – And Why It Benefits You, Too
Still don’t get the need for #BlackLivesMatter? Here’s how to move into action and solidarity, with an answer to the question on many peoples’ minds: “So, Black Lives Matter…now what?”
Read More4 Things You’ve Thought About Hijabis That Are Completely Wrong
These ideas are so common – do any of them match what you think about hijab? This info can make you think twice about your assumptions and help you be a better ally to Muslim women.
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