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Should Men Call Themselves ‘Pro-Feminist’ Instead of ‘Feminist’?
Do you know why some people are saying men shouldn’t call themselves feminists? Drop in on this convo for perspective on the different opinions.
Read More4 Ways Men Are Taught to Objectify Women From Birth
It should be obvious that women don’t exist just for other people’s enjoyment, right? These factors may have you adding to women’s dehumanization without even realizing it.
Read MoreWhat the Workplace Would Be Like If Men Were Treated Like Women
It’s no exaggeration when we say that society devalues femininity and so-called “women’s roles” in a damaging way – and this really drives that point home.
Read MoreHere’s the Real Reason Women Smile at Men Who Sexually Harass Us
Do you think “just ignore him” is good advice for women facing street harassment? This woman’s story of being blamed for a stranger’s harassment will change your mind.
Read More4 Ways the ‘Boys Will Be Boys’ Attitude Harms the Men in Our Lives
What do we really mean by “boys will be boys”? We need to stop what this expectation of masculinity is doing to men and boys.
Read MoreDear Men: This Is How You Should Be Approaching a Woman on the Street
Your 7-step guide to going from sleazy street harasser to respectful conversationalist.
Read MoreThe Danger of What Happens When Toxic Masculinity Fails Men
Society’s idea of what makes a “real man” creates toxic expectations for men. Here’s the disturbing result, with a promising idea for how we can change the traditional – and violent – definition of masculinity.
Read MoreWhat Cis Men Should Have Learned in Sex Ed
This author gets a lot of questions from cisgender men about sex with cisgender women – and he’s noticed how much sex ed is to blame for the information gaps. Here are the important missing details.
Read More48 Things Women Are Told Over Their Lifetimes (That Men Just Aren’t)
How many of these comments have you encountered in your life? This is 80 years of sexism in just under two minutes – it’s painful to watch, but we’re glad these girls and women spoke their truth.
Read MoreWhy the MRA ‘Manosphere’ Isn’t Actually Helping Men Cope with Rejection
Coping with rejection? If you’re like this reader who wrote to us, you know some straight men turn to MRAs, pick up artists, and other groups for support. Here’s why the Manosphere’s not giving the help you need.
Read MoreWhat’s Up with the Stigma Against Men Who Use Sex Toys?
Have you noticed the double standard society applies to men who use sex toys? Cristen Conger’s shutting down the stereotypes, and breaking down what this stigma says about modern masculinity.
Read MoreA Stunning Response to the People Who Say Men Can’t Be Raped
“Boys always want it.” Watch this performance to the end – Akeemjamal Rollins has a powerful message about why we’ve got to stop silencing male survivors.
Read MoreYoung Black Men Share Heartbreaking Stories About Growing Up in the US
Can you imagine being treated like a threat when you’re just trying to walk to school? You’ve got to watch this – the words of these black men and boys really touched our hearts, and we know they’ll move you, too.
Read MoreThe Danger of Claiming ‘Not All Men/White People/Privileged People’ Are to Blame
“Racists are a problem – white people aren’t,” “Not all men,” and more – people put a lot of effort into saying that not everyone in the dominant group is a problem. Kat Blaque’s breaking down what you’re missing when you rush to say this.
Read MoreHere’s What Is (And Isn’t) Working in Men’s Work on College Campuses
Being on a college campus is a unique opportunity to promote healthy relationships to masculinity and reduce sexual violence by engaging men. But there are a lot of dangers in doing this work. Here are some ideas for doing it responsibly.
Read More‘Be a Man?’ Watch Boys and Men Ages 5-50 Respond to This Common Phrase
Here’s what happened when boys and men of various ages were asked to respond to “be a man.” What does this phrase mean to you?
Read MoreHow Judging Women for Dependence on Men Reveals Your Internalized Misogyny
Lots of people think feminism requires being financially independent – but this perspective on the myth of independence might surprise you.
Read MoreWhen White Feminists Respond to Anti-Racism Like Men Respond to Feminism
“I don’t see color,” “All lives matter,” “Why do you have to make it about race?” Some of the responses we get to anti-racism sound awfully familiar – have you noticed these parallels?
Read MoreFrom Manspreading to Mansplaining — 6 Ways Men Dominate the Spaces Around Them
Before you jump in with “Women do it, too!” or “It’s no big deal,” check out this info on how male entitlement relates to much bigger issues. We see #2 around here a lot.
Read MoreAn Explanation for Why It’s Not Just Men Who Pressure Women Into Feminine Norms
It’s not as simple as men pressuring women to be feminine – we police each other and shame ourselves all the time. Here’s why we can’t escape the judgment.
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