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Top 10 Myths About Transgender People
Nearly one million adults in the US identify as transgender. And yet, most people know almost nothing about them. Why do we know so little about transgender people? Because they are systematically silenced on a daily basis. We don’t know them because, frankly, we don’t see them. So let’s confront some of the most common myths about transgender people and change our ways of thinking about them.
Read MoreAfrica Is Not a Derailment Tactic: Why Belittling ‘First World Problems’ Is Oppressive
“This is not important. First world problems!” Do you know how you’re perpetuating oppression by making comments like these?
Read More5 Oppressive Tactics We Need to Stop Using in Our Anti-Oppression Work
Calling oppressive people “old,” “crazy,” or “ugly?” We get your frustration, but here’s why we’ve got to do better than making oppressive comments ourselves.
Read MoreTop 10 Myths About Transgender People
Nearly one million adults in the US identify as transgender. And yet, most people know almost nothing about them. Why do we know so little about transgender people? Because they are systematically silenced on a daily basis. We don’t know them because, frankly, we don’t see them. So let’s confront some of the most common myths about transgender people and change our ways of thinking about them.
Read MoreThinking Critically About Problematic Media: A Basic How-To Guide
If you’re anything like me, you spend countless hours binge-watching your favorite TV shows, dancing to the songs that move you, and generally consuming a lot of media. That means that it is inevitable that some of the things you encounter and love are problematic. So what are we do to do when we encounter something that we love that is also deeply problematic?
Read MoreThe Gender Non-Conformity of My Fatness
Street harassment and more – do you make the same assumptions about gender and body types that lead to this author’s experiences in public?
Read MoreHow to Change Your Relationship with Failure in 5 Steps
It’s easy to feel like a failure in a culture that glamorizes wealth and accomplishment. This article reminds us that we have agency over how we perceive success.
Read MoreHow Queer Relationships Can Get Stuck in Harmful Gender Norms (And Why We Really Need to Get Unstuck)
The butch/femme binary can come in small boxes of how we’re “supposed” to be. Here’s some of the damage those boxes can bring – is any of it familiar to you?
Read More6 Ways to Respond to Sexist Microaggressions in Everyday Conversations
It can be hard to know what to do when sexist microaggressions happen, especially from someone you care about. Here are some ways to help you respond.
Read More10 Tips for Talking About Sexual Violence with Your Sons
We often discuss issues of rape and sexual violence with our daughters, but are we having these critical conversations with our sons? The truth is that our sons can be victims of rape, too. They can also be bystanders, confidants, or rapists. Undoubtedly these conversations are challenging. So how do we start them, and what do we talk about? Here are a few tips.
Read MoreJust Because It Doesn’t Affect You Personally Doesn’t Mean It’s Not Oppressive
Ever come across a social justice issue that didn’t seem like a problem to you? This comic breaks down why people say things like “we’ve got bigger fish to fry” – and why they need to stop.
Read More6 Reasons Why Being Called a Cis Person Is Not ‘Oppressive’
Using the term cis is all about helping trans people and not at all about making cis people feel bad. And yet, a lot of cis folk push back because they don’t understand it. Here are 6 reasons this term is not “oppressive.”
Read More5 Ways to Stand Up to Toxic Messages and Accept Yourself as a Bisexual Person
With toxic messages from both gay and straight communities, does identifying as bisexual ever feel isolating to you? This article will help you embrace your identity.
Read MorePansexuality 101: It’s More Than ‘Just Another Letter’
For some, the LGBPTQIA+ acronym can be intimidating in its all-inclusivity – “How am I supposed to memorize every identity in this nebula, and learn to respect them in my everyday life as well?” Worry not, kind feminist! Getting to know the basics will help to ease this overwhelmed feeling. Let’s explore one specific identity in this acronym today – pansexuality.
Read MoreWhy Climate Change Is an Issue of Social Justice for Vulnerable People
Do you know who’s hurt most by climate change? We can’t treat this as an “environmentalists-only” issue separate from social justice work, and here’s why.
Read More7 Things I Love About Being Bi
For bisexual people, representations of our identity in the pop culture world seem to fall into one of two categories. The first is absolute erasure: We encounter TV shows, movies, news reports, songs, trends, books, and essays that refuse to acknowledge the existence or validity of bisexuality in any way. On the other hand, the recent…
Read MoreThe Sexist Things People Get Away with Saying at Work
“There’s no way in hell he’d give that feedback to a man.” Sexism at work can be subtle, but here’s why it matters.
Read MoreKnow Your (Lack of a) Role: Honoring Healing Spaces as an Ally
“Why is this event only for [insert marginalized identity]? I’m an ally! I want to show my support.” While it can hurt when you come with good intentions, a healing space that is only for people of a marginalized identity that you don’t share is not for you. And that’s actually ok and needed. But sometimes we forget that and demand entry. Here’s another approach.
Read MoreHow Donald Trump’s Election Reveals the Danger of White Male Fragility
What’s white male fragility? Take a look at our president-elect and you’ll have a good idea. Here’s what we’re up against.
Read More3 Reasons Why ‘If I Ever Met a Rapist, I’d Punch Him’ Isn’t Helpful
You might think it’s supportive to threaten a rapist with violence. But here’s why it doesn’t make this author (and many other survivors) feel any safer.
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