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What This Expert Wishes Everyone Knew About Polyamory (Even If It’s Not for You)
She’s got a great message about monogamy, too. Does this change or support anything you already knew or thought about polyamory?
Read MoreThe Healing Power of Community
As important as self-care can be, for many of us, communal care is equally as vital. Healing community is about holding space: holding space for love, care, reflection, laughter, crying, feeling what we’re feeling, dancing, screaming, sorting through, moving past, sitting with, or for whatever else we may need.
Read MoreThe Difference Between ‘Asexual’ and ‘Aromantic’ Matters – Here’s Why
Does your understanding of sex and romance include the difference between asexual and aromantic? This shows why the distinction is so important.
Read MoreA Guide for Straight and Cisgender Allies in LGBTQIA+ Spaces
Even among allies with good intentions, there are some oppressive habits that come up in LGBTQIA+ spaces. Here’s how you can have fun and support friends in queer spaces in a respectful way.
Read More7 Need-to-Know Steps for How to Have the Best First Date (And Possible Relationship) Ever with Another Woman
You’re giddy with excitement for your first date with another woman! So don’t let narrow expectations of what relationships “should” be get you down. Take these tips on everything from what to wear to how to make a perfect plan. These are the keys to breaking down heteronormativity and building up meaningful relationships – full of respect and a whole lot of fun.
Read More10 Reasons Why Colonialism Strengthened Rape Culture In Latinx Communities
Content Warning: Sexual Assault, Violence Against Women In order to heal our communities from sexual violence, we have to understand its origins. For the past three years, I have worked as a Crisis Counselor-Advocate at a rape and domestic violence agency in Los Angeles. In my time as an advocate, I have worked one…
Read More10 Affirmations to Help Undocumented Immigrants Turn Panic into Resistance
It’s a scary time to be an undocumented immigrant in the US. These affirmations can help you transform your fear into powerful resistance.
Read MoreYou’re Not Too ‘Tight’ for Penetrative Sex – Society Has Just Convinced You of These 5 Bullsh*t Lies
If you’ve ever wondered about this, here’s a real answer – without the sexist myths. (Spoiler alert: You’re going to be fine.)
Read More5 Harmful Myths the Ethically Non-Monogamous Community Needs to Address
Know anyone so fed up with the lack of ethics in non-monogamy that they’ve given it up? This author’s tempted to be one of them. Let’s unpack the assumptions that can make this community an unethical place to be.
Read More5 Awesome Things About Being Mini-Orgasmic
Do you know about the different orgasmic patterns? If you can relate to this author and your orgasms aren’t like the ones in the movies, you’re not dysfunctional – here’s a celebration of how mini-orgasmic bodies work.
Read MoreHere’s How We Can Center Queer & Trans Survivors In The #MeToo Movement
I pray that queer and trans survivors aren’t left behind — our voices deserve to be front and center in the movement as much any other survivor.
Read More5 Essential Ways to Support the Autistic Community in Autism Acceptance
You know it’s bad when an autistic person dreads every Autism Awareness Month. Let’s do better as allies with these tips.
Read More5 Hidden Consequences of Men Mansplaining in Sports
These examples of mansplaining in sports are cringeworthy. But do you know the real impact this condescending habit is having?
Read MoreWhat Happened When My Therapist Told Me I Wasn’t Bisexual
“You don’t have to prove yourself to anyone.” A therapist invalidated Connor’s bisexuality – and here are tips for if anyone tries to erase your identity.
Read More3 Ways to Protect Yourself Digitally in the Trump Era
Trump’s made no secret of his willingness to lash out against those who criticize him. Make sure you’re protected online with these tips.
Read MoreDiversity or Inclusion – Do You Know Which One to Strive For?
There’s lots of talk about diversity as something to strive for – but what if we focused more on inclusion? Here’s the difference, and why it matters.
Read More5 Reasons to Stop Saying That Women Are ‘Complicated’
Are women really too complicated? It’s a common idea, but consider what you’re really saying, and you’ll realize the truth about “complication” and gender.
Read More9 Insensitive Things People Feel Fine Saying to Foster Parents
“You must be scared for your other kids.” You wouldn’t dream of saying these things to biological parents – so why do people say them to foster parents?
Read MoreWhy We Need to Stop Saying Anti-Queer Bigots Are Closeted Gay People
Have you ever said that someone biased against queer people was probably secretly gay? Find out why this as a dangerous line of thinking.
Read MoreLet’s Unpack the Damage of Being Labeled High- or Low-Functioning
Two friends, both disabled – but one is called “high-functioning,” and the other “low-functioning.” Find out how these labels can hurt, and who they’re really protecting.
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