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8 Things to Consider in Polyamorous Dating Before Committing to Another Partner
If you’re non-monogamous, in a relationship, and considering entering a new relationship, you might not find much info on how to navigate your situation. Try asking yourself these questions.
Read More3 Ways Polyamorous People Are Excluded in Queer Communities – And Why It’s Wrong
Queer communities are so important – but they can also be oppressive, and this article breaks down how excluding non-monogamous people means conforming to a harmful status quo instead of challenging it.
Read More13 Lies We Have to Stop Telling About Bisexual People
Despite all of the gains the LGBTQIA+ community has made, bisexual people are still looked upon with confusion — or outright scorn — by gay, lesbian, and straight people alike. Here we are in the supposedly enlightened year of 2014 – and yet, biphobia persists. Here are a few tiresome lies society really needs to stop telling about bisexual people.
Read MoreIt’s Hard Introducing New Sexual Desires into Relationships – Here Are 6 Ways to Start
“1. Get Comfortable with Your Desires.” If you’re not sure how to start a conversation with your partner about what you want, these steps should help.
Read More5 Myths People Believe About Aromanticism That Just Aren’t True
“All aros are asexual.” Have you bought into any of these myths about aromantic identity? You might be surprised by how much the truth changes your perception.
Read MoreThese 10 ‘Acceptable’ Trans Narratives Are Actually Holding Us Back
Is there a “proper” way to be transgender? You know the answer is no, but is it possible that you’ve bought into some of the social stigmas pressuring trans people to stick to a script? Many parts of our lives, gender identities, and sexuality are left out of socially accepted trans stories. Here they are, out in the open, saying “hell no” to acceptability politics.
Read MoreHealthy Relationships Come in All Shapes and Sizes
Too often, conversations around what healthy relationships look like completely ignore relationships that fall outside of the heterosexual, monogamous framework that our society so desperately wants us to cling to. But there are all sorts of ways to have relationships – including within asexuality, polyamory, and kink – and they all can be healthy and satisfying.
Read MoreAre You Dating Someone Who’s Bisexual? Check These 5 Assumptions
Dating bisexual people comes with unique challenges, only because of the assumptions that we often make about bisexuality. Watch this video and check yourself.
Read More5 Ways Mexican Queerness Is a Radical Act Against Colonialism and Machismo
“My existence often feels like a radical act in itself.” What’s it like to be queer within Mexican Catholicism? This is a powerful answer.
Read More5 Facts to Debunk the Biggest Myths About Dating Bisexual People Once and For All
Don’t be scared off from dating someone who’s sexually fluid — especially not before reading this about what it really means!
Read MoreHow Fluid Sexuality Fits into the LGBTQIA+ Spectrum
Sexuality isn’t a choice. So it may seem confusing to some when people say that they feel that their sexuality is fluid. But being sexually fluid doesn’t mean a person is confused. For a person to know and accept their sexuality as fluid, they must be self-aware. So let’s learn a little more about sexual fluidity.
Read More9 Fantastic Ways to Be a Practicing Feminist with Your Partner
What does feminism look like in a relationship? Try these great tips to foster a healthy, supportive partnership.
Read More5 Radical Ways People Do Non-Monogamy That You Need to Know About
You might know about the type of non-monogamy that gets most mainstream media attention. But do you know these other relationship styles outside the status quo?
Read MorePolyamorous Dating: 5 Tips For Dealing With Jealousy
“But don’t you get jealous?” This is often one of the first questions about polyamory, and it’s true that jealousy can be tricky to navigate. If you’re polyamorous, these helpful tips can give you the tools you need.
Read More6 Tips for Marginalized People Looking for a Good Therapist
If you’re queer, a survivor, or otherwise marginalized, you may have these questions about therapy. Here are some answers.
Read More6 Questions to Ask If You Have More Privilege Than Your Partner
Can you relate more to this author or her partner? If your partner has a marginalized identity you don’t share, these questions may help you be supportive.
Read MoreThe Difference Between ‘Asexual’ and ‘Aromantic’ Matters – Here’s Why
Does your understanding of sex and romance include the difference between asexual and aromantic? This shows why the distinction is so important.
Read More10 Things Sex Positivity Is Not
#2: “Thinking everyone should like sex.” You might think these things are sex-positive, but find out what it means to assume they’re great for everyone.
Read More5 Times I Didn’t Have to ‘Love Myself to Be Loved By Someone Else’
Is it true that you can’t love somebody else until you love yourself? That’s what people say, but these stories can remind you that it’s okay to accept healing love from others.
Read MoreNo Ghost Friends: 9 Feminist Tips for Casual Dating and Phantom-Free Hook-Ups
Casual dating can be scary enough without the possibility of “ghosting.” Here’s how to make sure “casual” isn’t code for “unaccountable” – tips for communication and respect.
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