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Male Rape Is No Laughing Matter (Even Though We’re Taught to Think It Is)
Male rape survivors often face a specific kind of victim-blaming. One man shares his experience and why our culture’s idea of masculinity confirms that, to him, rape is sincerely hilarious.
Read More5 Reasons We Need to Stop Making Jokes About Men Who Have Been Raped By Women
There was a terrible backlash after actor Shia LaBeouf told a reporter that a woman raped him. And unfortunately, the jokes made at his expense are not unusual. Here’s why the truth about male rape survivors is no laughing matter.
Read MoreWhen I Was Trolled and Fat-Shamed By One of My Male College Students
“I hate you and everything you stand for.” This is HORRIFYING – and it says a lot about misogyny and men’s entitlement in our society.
Read MoreCatcalls Are Not Compliments
Those of us who experience street harassment know that it’s not a compliment; it’s dehumanizing. But some people still insist that we should be flattered by these catcalls, claiming they “wish they got that kind of attention.” This comic shows what street harassment really looks like, and demonstrates why, no, you really don’t want this kind of attention.
Read MoreWhy Sexual Assault Survivors Stay Quiet
Choosing whether or not to report sexual assault shouldn’t be a matter of choosing the lesser of two evils. But it is. Staying silent often means the issue is never addressed, but when survivors speak up, they’re met with blame and skepticism. It’s a catch-22. This comic by Jim C. Hines perfectly captures how unfair and harmful this double standard is.
Read More4 Reasons Why the US Police Force Is an Extension of Slavery and White Supremacy (That You Were Probably Never Taught)
Many Black and Black-allied people in the US are enraged with the police. We think if you read these historical and contemporary truths, you’ll be angry, too.
Read More7 ‘Positive Thinking’ Phrases That Can Actually Cross the Line Into Gaslighting
“Don’t cry.” People reject others’ feelings or lived experiences all the time – even when they think they’re helping. If taken too far, it can cross into abuse. Are any of these phrases familiar to you?
Read MoreHere’s What Trigger Warnings Are – And What They’re Not
Are trigger warnings part of a conspiracy to limit free speech? Let’s debunk myths like this one with this illuminating info on what trigger warnings really mean.
Read MoreThe Real Reason Why People Resist Affirmative Consent Laws
Only have sex with people who’ve given enthusiastic and willful consent. Seems simple – so why are some people against affirmative consent? Here’s a perfect example of how these conversations go.
Read MoreWhat White People Say About About Black Lives Matter (And What You Really Mean)
The most common “concerns” white folks have about Black Lives Matter are totally missing the point. Celia Edell’s calling in fellow white folks to help you understand why.
Read MoreWhy It’s Dangerous to Tell Men to Be Persistent to Get Women to Sleep with Them
Romantic comedies show it. Dating advice condones it. But the idea of sex as a game for men to win has some scary real world consequences.
Read MoreHe Said ‘You’re Too Fat to Be Raped’ – And Here’s Her Stunning Response
What would you say to the idea that “fat bodies can never be raped?” Beck Cooper’s response includes a “rape prevention potluck” – and her words will floor you.
Read MoreFor Michael Brown and Ferguson: Facing White Fears of Blackness and Taking Action to End White Supremacy
The police murder of Michael Brown has once again brought the attention of the country to the devastating reality of racist violence and structural inequality. With outrage, grief, and pain all over the country, I’m writing this to white people in particular as a call to action to stand with the people of Ferguson. Here are nine suggestions to help move forward.
Read More5 Strategies for Difficult Conversations About Race
How often have you come across that “Black-on-Black crime” derailment? How to respond to that and other common blocks to conversations on race.
Read More5 Easy Lifestyle Changes We Can All Make to Help Save the Environment
If you knew how practical and helpful these environmental ideas were, you’d probably already be doing them – so here’s your chance to make a difference!
Read MoreA Guide to Self-Care When Your Loved Ones Don’t Support Your Activism
What do you do with those relationships with people who don’t support your social justice activism? These self-care tips may help.
Read MoreThe Worst Thing About Being Catcalled Is My Guilt
Have you ever blamed yourself for being catcalled? A stunning perspective on carrying shame from street harassment.
Read More6 Free or Affordable Tips for Intersex People Trying to Get By
If you’re an intersex person trying to survive, it can be tough finding medical care and other resources. This author gets it – and these tips can help.
Read More4 Damaging Myths About Mental Health in the US
“2. If the mentally ill just wanted help, they could get it.” This video sets the record straight on mental health stigma. Are there any other mental health myths you’d like to dispel?
Read More3 Reasons Why I’m Unapologetically Open About My Experiences of Rape
Why would someone be open about experiencing sexual assault in a society that condemns people for doing so? These are some empowering reasons.
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