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While we talk a lot about harmful media beauty ideals like extreme thinness, sex appeal, etc, one of the most oppressive ideals excludes anyone who isn’t white – ie whitewashing of beauty. And in our society, it has a negative impact on females who rarely see images of their own races depicted in a positive manner and on how white people (and all people) view women of color.

I’ve written several times about various aspects of fat antagonism. But because the body positivity, Health at Every Size, and fat acceptance movements trend very white, there is little discussion—both within these movements and outside of them—about body image issues for Black folk. That’s a problem for several reasons. Mostly because I’ve been having a…

If we can all learn how to recognize signs of sexual abuse, we’ll be in better positions to support survivors. Here’s info on how from Dr. Lindsey Doe.

Often, colonized peoples shame those who are less “Western” and more “FOB-y” when, really, we should be shaming our colonizers.

Where can you find the comic characters who look like you? Here are some suggestions on where to start, and how to support more representation in comics.

With a president-elect who has bragged about sexual assault, US survivors can use self-care right now. These ideas from Uplift Rebellion can help.

She didn’t know it was a disorder until she Googled “pull out my hair.” Here’s Jillian Clark’s story of learning to cope and gaining love for herself.

Ameena didn’t want to be a “good Arab girl” – virginal and submissive. So she moved across the globe to where she would be more free. And then found herself being slut-shamed.

Growing up as a young girl in our society can feel pretty messed up – especially when what’s messed up is normalized. Dealing with that can lead to depression and anger.

From the way it was presented to me, I knew my disability was something negative; something no one wanted. So I was placed in Special Ed, because that’s what people do with you when they can’t figure you out.

While online spaces can provide access to critical relationships, they can also amplify feelings of low self-worth.

Love YouTube videos? You should know this about the women who make them: “I love making YouTube videos. I love making content that makes you laugh or think or see the world differently. I hate that my job comes with a daily dose of harassment.” In this video, these women share about the sexist, racist, and body-shaming comments that regularly slam their work. (Trigger Warning)

Our fear after Donald Trump’s election is valid – but how can we keep it from getting overwhelming? These self-care ideas can help.

Performance poet Ethan Smith had an important message to send his former self – and here’s the emotional, honest, and profound result in “A Letter to the Girl I Used to Be.”

How do you handle conversations on police violence and racism? This list can help, with info on structural racism, allyship, self-care for Black folks, and more.

“It’s a movement built on love.” Shut down the myths about Black Lives Matter and learn what this movement really means.

Stereotype #3: “Men want sex while women want love.” If you accept these as truth, these consequences should make you reconsider.

A small child is eating fruit salad.

“Love isn’t enough.” White parents adopting black children need to recognize the challenges and needs of black childhood. Here’s what you should know.

An image of what looks like the "Welcome to Fabulous Las Vegas, Nevada" sign, but instead, says "Bollywood, Mumbai"

Do you love Bollywood movies? This author sure does, and she’s made a list to spread the feminist Bollywood joy. Happy watching!

A drawing of a black high heeled shoe against a light blue background

Why do so many (including this author) love heels, in spite of their problems? These answers are fascinating. Do you have any to add?