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48 Things Women Are Told Over Their Lifetimes (That Men Just Aren’t)
How many of these comments have you encountered in your life? This is 80 years of sexism in just under two minutes – it’s painful to watch, but we’re glad these girls and women spoke their truth.
Read MoreWhy I Stand Up to Politically Incorrect Jokes
I’ve had this experience a million times. It’s one of the complicated realities that come along with being a progressive-minded person: The jokes just aren’t as funny anymore. When we can see the humanity behind the people who these jokes target, and when we understand the implications of the privileged laughing at the marginalized, we lose our ability to laugh at their expense.
Read MoreShe Revealed Where Her Family’s Homophobia Started and Showed the Brilliant Power of Queer People of Color – In One Amazing Poem
“I picture myself coming out and my parents’ heartbreak flooding all of India.” Ever had a similar feeling?
Read MoreHormones for Cis People vs Trans and Intersex People: The Awful Double Standard
Have you ever talked to a doctor about your hormones? The way you were treated probably depends on if you’re cisgender or not. This comic reveals the biases too many medical professionals have.
Read MoreWhat Cis Folk Have In Common With Trans Folk
Transgender people face a huge battle in society to freely express themselves. But in many ways, we’re all fighting a similar battle – to be seen as people and for who we are.
Read More6 Body-Shaming Reasons People Tell You to Wear a Bra – And Why It’s None of Their Business
“You can’t go out like that!” Do you have to wear a bra? Here are some of the body-shaming reasons people would say so – with some empowering alternative ideas.
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Here’s How You Can Get the Most Out of Therapy (Part 2!)
Since therapy doesn’t come with a user guide, anyone who’s in therapy could use these tips for making sure it’s the best experience for you.
Read MoreHow to Be a Good Ally to Fat People Who Appear to Have Lost Weight
“I mean it as a compliment when I notice you’ve lost weight!” Okay. But just because you’re well-intentioned doesn’t mean what you say doesn’t have a harmful impact. I know your perception of me might have changed because you’re socialized to believe smaller is better, but there are better ways to behave when you notice someone has lost weight.
Read MoreHow to Support a Friend or Partner with Social Anxiety
Do any of your loved ones have social anxiety? It’s a draining burden to carry, so here’s Celia Edell with some great suggestions on where to start with giving the support they need.
Read More5 Everyday Supportive Phrases That Actually Aren’t Very Supportive
Whether it’s an everyday problem or a big life decision, turning to someone else for support and advice can feel uncomfortable and awkward. But listening and giving advice is equally tricky. Helping a loved one through a difficult time can be tough. It’s important to be conscious of your words and actions. Let’s discuss the everyday phrases that might give the wrong impression to a friend in need.
Read MoreAn Open Letter to the Men Who Still Don’t Understand Street Harassment
Hello, fellow men. I get what you’re saying. You feel like it’s unfair of a woman to assume that your intention is malicious whenever you tell her that she’s beautiful. You weren’t trying to offend her. Harassment? No, that’s not what you meant at all. But just because you didn’t mean to doesn’t mean you’re not somewhere on the harassment spectrum.
Read MoreWhat To Do When Your Boss Makes a Sexist Joke
Your boss makes a joke about women needing to stay in the kitchen. Do you: a) laugh outwardly and cringe inwardly, b) get mad and tell him he’s a jerk, or c) help him take the higher road?
Read MoreYou Can Bring Feminist Leadership to Work – Here Are 5 Genius Ways to Make It Happen
Unfortunately, lots of folks don’t work with bosses who treat them well. Here’s a better way to lead. Do you have more ideas for feminist leadership?
Read More4 Reasons Why Voluntourism Won’t Fix the World – And What to Do Instead
You volunteer overseas because you want to make the world a better place – but are you doing more harm than good?
Read More4 More Things Adults Can Do to Address Child Victimization
We can lay the groundwork for the children we love for good health and truly empowered living. Here, we look those aspects of protecting children that are slightly beyond the basics: the more subtle, on-going interactions that strengthen our children, influence their decision making, impact their safety, and, hopefully, contribute to a safer and saner society.
Read More4 Off-Putting Messages We Send to Trans Men Considering Pregnancy
Invalidating responses to male pregnancy are common, which can lead trans men to internalize the belief that it’s not acceptable to both be a man and desire pregnancy. But many of those responses are based on misconceptions and assumptions. So here are the deeper realities. With this knowledge, we can move beyond the limits of what’s “acceptable” for a man.
Read More4 Ways the US Keeps Single Moms in Poverty – And What We Can Do About It
These are devastating. It’s far too common for poverty to be the default if you’re raising kids alone – and you may not realize how much that’s due to these circumstances unique to the structure of the United States.
Read MoreWhy ‘Having It All’ Actually Kinda Sucks for Women
“Instead of changing the systems, we tell women to lean in.” People are getting the idea of women being “empowered” to have both careers and kids all wrong, so here’s what needs to change.
Read MoreWe Need to Stop Using These 3 Excuses to Justify Fat-Shaming Pregnant People
When “health concern” comes in this form, it’s not supportive – it’s oppressive. Have you witnessed any other ways of fat-shaming pregnant people?
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