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Feminists Have Food and Body Image Issues Too: 5 Ways to Get Over the Shame
I was a full-blown feminist in college. I also had a full-blown eating disorder. I came to feminism because I could feel the injustice in my obsession. Feminism gave me the framework to see that my eating disorder was part of something larger. But I still couldn’t tell anyone because I felt like a bad feminist. Here’s 5 ways I worked through that inappropriate shame.
Read More‘I Didn’t Know That Was Racist’ – Are You Using ‘White Ignorance’ to Dodge Responsibility?
Have you ever said, “Oh, I didn’t know it was racist” when you were called out for racism? It happens a lot. Celia Edell’s breaking down how this phrase relates to “white ignorance” – and how it misses the point.
Read MoreI Think I Might Be Trans: 8 Important Notes On Questioning and 50+ Resources to Get You Started
So you think that the gender you were told to have your entire life is not, in fact, who you are. Now what? This is a huge moment in your life, and it can be hard to start navigating this world designed for cis people as someone who’s trans or questioning your a/gender identity. Here are some tools to help your process of affirming yourself and others.
Read More4 Things Getting Doxed Taught Me About Being a Fat Person
Her story of going through doxxing, an extreme form of online harassment, is horrifying. But these lessons she’s taking from it are powerful.
Read More11 Easy Ways Managers and Employers Can Foster Trans-Inclusive Work Environments
Have you heard these stories of transphobic discrimination at work? They’re horrendous – and have some really dire consequences. With these fantastic ideas, you can help do something about it.
Read More5 Reasons Why ‘Bad Asians’ Rock and ‘Positive’ Racial Stereotypes Need to Go
Do you consider yourself a “bad” example of an Asian like this author does? Here’s why so-called “positive” stereotypes aren’t very positive at all – and what you need to know to stand up to them.
Read MoreUnrequited Love for a Friend? Here Are 6 Ways to Deal
There’s no getting around it – unrequited love sucks. If being unhappily in love with one of your friends is familiar to you, these ideas can help you cope.
Read More9 Answers to Common Questions for Atheists – So You Don’t Insult Us By Asking
#8: “What if you’re wrong?” Here are the answers to questions many people ask atheists – and why so many atheists might get ticked off if you ask them.
Read More7 Questions to Help You Balance Self-Care and Resistance
How can we resist everything Donald Trump is doing without burning ourselves out? These questions can help you find some answers.
Read More5 Ways To Avoid Sexism In Your Kid’s Halloween Costume
Halloween is a parenting landmine. Halloween costumes have become their own labyrinth of sexism and over-sexualization of children. What’s a parent to do? Here are 5 ways to make sure your kids aren’t learning gender stereotypes from their Halloween Costumes.
Read MoreWhat Men Can Do To Stop Street Harassment
With this time of year comes an increase in street harassment. So let me say it plainly to my male-identified people out there: Street harassment and leering are never okay. It’s all harassment. It’s all misogyny. And it all needs to stop. And since men are the primary perpetrators of street harassment, men bear the responsibility for ending it.
Read MoreWhy We Demonize Mental Illness – And What to Do About It
How does the stigma against mental illness impact you and the rest of our society? Stigmas and silencing protect a hurtful status quo, causing the most harm against those who are most in need of support. So how can you respond? Read on to learn why we must show compassion to combat stigma – and why you have to start with showing compassion to yourself.
Read MoreThe Internet Can Help Trauma Survivors — But It Can Harm Them, Too
While online spaces can provide access to critical relationships, they can also amplify feelings of low self-worth.
Read MoreWhat’s Wrong with Gossiping and How To Speak Out Against It
Gossip is a form of emotional and verbal bullying that many people minimize. While you may not be pushing someone into a locker or stealing their milk money, it’s extremely hurtful to the target’s self esteem, mental health and friendships. Learn some tips on how to speak out against it.
Read More5 Comebacks For Your Racist Relative During The Holidays
It’s the time of year when many people spend time with their family, including the racist relatives. Franchesca Ramsey has some replies to have ready if a relative says racist comments.
Read MoreThe Media Is Lying to You About Men’s Emotions, And It’s Really F*cked Up – Here’s a Healthier View
When was the last time you saw a positive media portrayal of a man expressing emotions? The approach in this comic is such a relief.
Read More7 Things You Can Do If Your Friend Gets Back with Their Abusive Ex-Partner
It can be so scary and unsettling if someone you care about gets back with an abusive partner – but it happens more often than you might think. Here’s what to do.
Read More6 Ways to Respect Your Fat Friends While Discussing Your Fitness Regimen
“4. Think Twice Before Posting Before and After Photos on Social Media.” It may feel harmless to discuss your fitness life – but here’s how you might be hurting your fat friends.
Read More9 Common Mistakes Parents Make About Their Kids’ Weight
Do you know how early kids internalize the thin ideal? It’s scary how young they can start to feel bad about their bodies – and these common pitfalls don’t help. This article has better options.
Read More4 Lies We Need to Stop Believing About Racism If We Ever Truly Want It To End
“#1: That racism only happens in individual interactions.” Conversations on systemic racism get derailed a lot – and these lies are some of the most common reasons we miss what’s important.
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