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“What kind of Indian are you?” “Do you live in teepees?” “If I had an Indian name, it would be Tail Feather, because I can shake it!” This satirical video captures the unfortunate truth of what too many people say to Native people, and the result is hilarious. Watch now to learn common stereotypical beliefs that come with conversations about Native culture.

“2. If the mentally ill just wanted help, they could get it.” This video sets the record straight on mental health stigma. Are there any other mental health myths you’d like to dispel?

Check out the spoken word poem that started a powerful movement of self-love and remember that your body is not an apology!

Find out why people are saying these are the words that finally helped them understand anti-Black racism in the U.S.

How do you feel when you hear “one size fits all?” Excitement? Dread? The truth is, so many of us don’t fit, and then it’s one more reason to feel bad about our bodies. So if you don’t fit, don’t feel bad. Catch this video with women of varying body types trying on these clothes to remember that you’re not alone – and have some laughs while you’re at it.

Fatphobia is so rampantly internalized that many people justify their attraction to fat people by comparing them to non-human objects. It turns the possibility of mutual desire and appreciation into fetish. In this spoken word performance, Samantha Peterson rejects the dehumanizing nuance of supposedly metaphorical compliments and reclaims her body’s agency, humanity, and beauty.

There’s lots of “information” floating around about autism that’s just plain inaccurate – and also really harmful. This comic debunks several common misconceptions. Are there any more you’d add to the list?

A red sign reads, in white, "Fragile: Handle with Care"

Have you participated in white fragility? This author’s calling in her fellow white allies who put their feelings before racial justice, or say things like “not all white people.” All white allies could use this info on how to do better.

“This is the part of the story when everyone is telling you to run.” How is anxiety like living in a haunted house? Brenna Twohy makes the comparison and really captures the struggles of anxiety – but this story has a happy ending.

In general, our society is moving toward a more accepting framework, and people seem to be more interested in becoming culturally aware. But in a misguided attempt to appreciate other cultures, many socially progressive folks end up exoticizing people of different cultures. Check out this hilarious satire to see what it sounds like when the roles are reversed.

The way languages incorporate gender can have a powerful impact on the expression of identity.

Two friends happily roam through the streets together, on piggy back

Ever participated in these ways of making social justice communities exclusive? They’re pretty common, but this author’s got some ways to include everyone – and some really good points about why it matters.

“But where are you really from?” This is just one example of how your words can invalidate people’s identities – make sure you know what to avoid saying and why, so we can all move on to deeper conversations.

Heads drawn on a chalkboard, each saying "Listen to me!"

Have you ever found yourself in a controversial conversation you wish you’d never started? Next time, you can save yourself the trouble.

Young child in a baseball cap, looking frustrated at the camera

Are you startled by the idea of this, or not even batting an eye? Either way, you should know about healthy ways to respond.

A faucet with a single drop of water falling from it.

“Trickle-down” economic policies are coming up again in this election season – but helping the rich get richer won’t do anything for the rest of us. These numbers speak volumes.

“There’s no way in hell he’d give that feedback to a man.” Sexism at work can be subtle, but here’s why it matters.

Young person covering their face with their hand; their hand has "HELP" written on it

Some of these assumptions are super common – they’re just what adults tend to think about teenagers. Have you recognized how these thoughts can go wrong?

Ever been treated like she was by someone at work? This guide can help you do something about it.

Person saying "shh" and holding their hand out

You likely know not to say these things to survivors. But do you know what you can say instead?