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But Seriously, Let’s Talk About Millennial Poverty
Many people think poverty doesn’t “look like” Millennials like this author. But here’s why we need to face the reality of poverty and what it means for the Millennial generation.
Read MoreLet’s Talk About the Reality of the “Men’s Rights” Argument
What’s up with men’s rights advocates? Maybe you’ve read their commentary, and maybe you’ve wanted them to shut the hell up about so-called “men’s oppression.” But is there any truth to what they’re saying? What are their worries, and who are the true champions of gender equality? Let’s get into the concerns, the myths, and the real story behind men’s rights.
Read MoreWhy Do Women Talk Like Kim Kardashian?
Is Kim Kardashian a vocal trendsetter? You might associate her and other young women with certain speaking styles, like vocal fry or uptalk – the “valley girl” accent. And you may not be surprised that studies show negative opinions of women who talk this way. But do you know about the underlying functions of this communication style? It’s deeper than you might think.
Read More3 Ways to Talk About Social Justice at Home
In college, I would often immerse myself in feminist theory and politics. And then I’d come home and be unable to communicate those ideas to my mother, who is the embodiment of a feminist praxis. There is something very unsettling about preaching and aspiring to politics of liberation that alienate your own mother. Here’s some ways to address that and reconnect.
Read MoreHow to Talk About Race with Your White Boyfriend
Some people claim that love is (color)blind. But it hasn’t even been 50 years since laws prohibiting interracial relationships were outlawed, and the effects of that history are still in play today. So how do people navigate this history of tension, privilege, and oppression when they’re also trying to date each other? Here are some ways to approach the topic.
Read MoreLet’s Talk About Domestic Violence in the Trans Community
Domestic violence is about power. When one’s trans identity challenges conventional gender definitions, its boundaries, and its performances, DV survivors can often feel disempowered. And because it is happening in trans* communities, we need to talk about it and what you can do to help. With the right knowledge and tools, you can help facilitate recovery.
Read MoreSex Tips That Don’t Suck
Had enough of sex tips that suck? They can really damage the way you see yourself. Take in this spoken word piece about real sex tips and take your body back.
Read More10 Things You Should Know About Sexual Fantasies
Do you know how fantasies can affect your sex life? If you’ve ever been curious about sexual fantasies, Dr. Doe has some info for you.
Read More6 Affirmations for People Ashamed of Their Kink
Feeling ashamed of your kink? We need more positivity to counter the negative messages we get about being kinky, so let these guide your view on your kink!
Read More4 Things People Say When They Learn I’m a Sex Writer (And the Awful Gender Norms They Reveal)
“You’re so brave!” There are some really uncool stereotypes about women and sex that become SUPER clear when she says she write about sex and relationships.
Read MoreShould You Have Sex On the First Date? A Choose Your Own Adventure Chart!
It’s the first date! Should you have sex? If you struggle with questions about things like commitment and rejection, this simple flow chart can help.
Read More5 Liberating Reasons Why I’ve Broadened My Definition of ‘Sex’
Reason #2: “This approach takes the pressure off.” This shift in perspective could help many people’s approach to sex – does it change anything for you?
Read More5 Questions About Alcohol and Consent You’re Too Afraid to Ask, Answered
“What if they’re BOTH drunk?” Got questions about drinking, sex, and consent? Here are your answers.
Read More8 Myths About Vaginal Orgasms That Persist Even in Feminist Circles
“5. Vaginal orgasms are more difficult to achieve.” Lately, feminists have been debunking certain myths about vaginal orgasms – but are you still holding on to any of these persistent misconceptions?
Read More5 Myths Sex-Positive Feminism Can Perpetuate About Women Who Don’t Do Casual Sex
“#1: We just need to liberate ourselves from sex-shaming.” This author’s a sex-positive feminist – and she’s often questioned for not having casual sex. Make sure you’re not including these myths in your sex positivity.
Read More6 Ways Your ‘Concern’ About Your Friend’s Sex Life Is Really Sex-Shaming
“There’s nothing wrong with casual sex, but I’m worried that you’ll get hurt.” Have you ever had concerns like this? They can come from a good place, but here are some of the damaging myths behind them.
Read More6 Reasons To Drop The Myth That Women Who Have Lots of Sex Are ‘Insecure’
Have you fallen for this myth? Insecurity is a factor in some women’s sexual choices, but it’s not a universal motivator – and here’s why we really need to challenge this idea.
Read More5 Awesome Things About Being Mini-Orgasmic
Do you know about the different orgasmic patterns? If you can relate to this author and your orgasms aren’t like the ones in the movies, you’re not dysfunctional – here’s a celebration of how mini-orgasmic bodies work.
Read MoreHow Do You Know If Someone Wants to Have Sex? 5 Essential Signs of Consent
Do you know all the ways someone can communicate wanting to have sex? Consent includes words and body language – and this Planned Parenthood video has an excellent breakdown of what that really means.
Read MoreMy Experience with Sex After 50 Has Been Both a Struggle and a Gift
This is a fascinating account of how one woman’s body and desires changed with aging. Does her story give you a new perspective on sex after 50?
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