It’s the first date! Should you have sex?
Lots of different factors could go into this decision – your desires, your date’s desires, expectations of commitment, fears of getting rejected or fetishized, and more. It can all make the question of whether or not to have sex pretty stressful or confusing.
This flow chart can help ease some of that stress. Instead of listening to society’s usual ideas of how your sex life “should be,” try following these suggestions.
They can help you reach a decision about sex on the first date that’s best for you and your date. And we hope it this gives you less stress and more fun!
The Editors at Everyday Feminism
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To learn more about this topic, check out:
- 9 Questions I Ask Myself Before Having Sex That Might Help You, Too
- It’s Hard Introducing New Sexual Desires into Relationships – Here Are 6 Ways to Start
Ronnie Rene Ritchie is a Contributing Comic Artist for Everyday Feminism, an illustrator, and storyteller working out of Peterborough, Ontario. Since graduating from the Pacific Northwest College of Art in Portland, Oregon with a BFA in Illustration, Ronnie has had work featured in galleries and sex shops across North America, and their autobiographical webcomic, GQutie, has seen its popularity soar online. Learn more about GQutie, Ronnie’s illustration, or follow them on Twitter @ronithebear.
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