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How Do You Know If Someone Wants to Have Sex? 5 Essential Signs of Consent
Do you know all the ways someone can communicate wanting to have sex? Consent includes words and body language – and this Planned Parenthood video has an excellent breakdown of what that really means.
Read MoreWant Sex Tips That Actually Help? Try These 4 Activities to Connect to Your Body
Lots of sex advice includes new tricks, toys, and positions. But if you’re like this author, those kinds of tips aren’t helpful – because the first step is to connect with your body. These tips can help you get there.
Read More5 Ways Advice Columns Harm Us When They Make Sex the Answer to Romantic Problems
We all know that so-called women’s magazines can be harmful, especially in the ways that they talk about sex. But have you ever thought about the way that these columns push sex as a cure-all for relationship ills? These authors have – and what they have to share may surprise you.
Read MoreMy Experience with Sex After 50 Has Been Both a Struggle and a Gift
This is a fascinating account of how one woman’s body and desires changed with aging. Does her story give you a new perspective on sex after 50?
Read MoreYour 3-Step Guide to Practicing Non-Oppressive BDSM
Some people think it’s contradictory to be a feminist and practice BDSM. With these tips, you can think through even more than safe words and and consent – and get kinky without compromising your values.
Read MoreConsent’s So-Called ‘Gray Areas’ Aren’t Confusing At All with This Poet’s Analogies
“What if we’re just both really drunk? What if she sends mixed messages? What if I’m trying to do the right thing but I read those signals wrong?”
Read More7 Lies That Can Make You Think It’s Okay to Judge Women Who Like Sex
If you’re feeling okay about judging a “promiscuous” woman because of these myths, you need to know the truth behind them.
Read MoreSome People Have Sexless Relationships – And Here Are Some Things Not to Say to Them
Have you ever made one of these assumptions about people in sexless relationships? Because they can be really hurtful.
Read MoreYes! 4 Ways Feminism Can Make You Better In Bed
Lucky us! We’re really glad #4 made the list. Can you think of any more?
Read MoreIt’s Rude to Say Prude, and It Sucks When You Label Me Slut – Stop Policing My Sexuality!
Can we stop with the shame now so we can all have an ending as sweet as this one? Tell us how you’ve dealt with comments like these!
Read MoreNot Sure How to Tell If a Sex Shop Is Feminist? Here Are 8 Questions to Ask
Read this and tell us: Ever had a sex shop experience as regretful or fantastic as these? Here’s to better times for all of us!
Read MoreConsent Can Be Withdrawn At Any Time and 10 Other Things You Need to Know About Consent
We often talk about how important consent is, but what, exactly, is consent? Here it is – a video from Lex Croucher covering the basics of what it means to consent to sexual activity. Rape, sexual assault, and coercion are far too common among all types of people. So spread the word, and let’s raise awareness of this clear understanding of consent. (Content Warning: Rape)
Read MoreFrom Stripping to Sex Tapes – The Kardashians, Amber Rose, and Our Love of Hating Women
Is it “just for fun” when we love to hate on women in the media like Kim Kardashian? What does that say about us? What we need to know about our role in a dangerous kind of sexism.
Read MoreExposing 5 Sex Myths That Impact Your Choices as a Woman
Have gender stereotypes led you to have sex when you didn’t want to? Your sex life shouldn’t be defined by stereotypes. Understanding how culture influences our choices around sex can empower us to talk about our desires and needs openly and sincerely. This article will help you understand and feel empowered. Learn how myths can impact you — and what to do about it.
Read MoreBeyond 50 Shades: The Reality Behind 3 Myths About BDSM
It’s important to discuss kink from a feminist perspective because of the harm that misinformation about our desires can cause. This misinformation can lead to feelings of disempowerment in one’s a/sexuality and relationships, and erardicating that should be part of the foundation of any intersectional feminist movement. So let’s bust three common myths about BDSM.
Read MoreThe ‘Problem’ With Male Virginity
I’ve talked before about the toxic culture surrounding masculinity and how it hurts men. Today, I want to start the conversation to help dismantle it. One of the best places to start is to talk about sex. Specifically: male virginity and the shame in not having sex. Let’s talk about the problems with the way we think about male virginity and how to fix them.
Read MoreWas It Good For You?: Inequality in Hetero Hookups
Hookup culture. Everybody’s doing it. But maybe let’s take a step back and think about how – and who – this upward trend in casual sex is affecting: Is it healthy? Is it fostering equality? Is it beneficial for all? Or does it continue to uphold patriarchal memes?
Read MoreTaking Feminism to Bed: Sexual Norms vs. Feminist Ideals
When it comes to sexuality and feminism, one of the biggest roadblocks that we face – both in unlearning our own educations and in teaching others – is how social messages conflict with our own authenticity. What are some ways in which we can transform public thought about sexual “norms” and reconcile our feminist beliefs with social norms surrounding sex?
Read More4 Ways to Take a Stand Against Revenge Porn
Revenge porn – never heard of it? This new internet craze, specifically focused on women, occurs when a person shares a sexual or nude photo or video with a partner or hookup who later decides to make the private photo public. And in most places, it’s perfectly legal. So what can be done in these types of situations? Let’s look at the options we have.
Read MoreBeing Pressured to Have Sex: How to Deal
Many a misguided attempt at flirting or misread signal can result in feeling pressured to have sex when you don’t want to. If it crosses into forceful action, or coercion, then your best course of action may be to call the police. But what about the run-of-the-mill misunderstandings? How do you handle those situations and make your intentions clear?
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